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Sex with my current boyfriend does nothing for me! Any suggestions?

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Question - (26 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2007)
A female Ireland, asho320 writes:

im with my lovely boyfrend 10months and i lovehim to bits and love when we do stuff like fingering,wanking etc.... but sex does nothing for me( he is very very small,my ex was very very big and he was great in bed)but with my new boyfrend i just dont feel anything when hes inside me. any suggestions?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2007):

It not the shape colour or SIZE it how many times it can rise!!!! that is my motto. Now first things first, your ex was big so your virginia was probably use to his size, carry out some pelvic exercises, this will tighten your virgina ( not saying that you need it) but after a while you will find that you will feel more during sex!!!!

Explore new positons, i find that doggy, or your legs on his shoulders works wonders!!!!!! do not lose hope, it the technique that matters!!!!!!!

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A female reader, Emmajane United Kingdom +, writes (26 September 2007):

Emmajane agony auntSize isn't everything. I suggest if you really like him and want to be with him you look at other ways to enjoy each other too, like oral sex, which when a guy does it well, can be better than penetration. Also, there are some positions where however small he is, you'll get a lot of pleasure.

The vagina has three areas which are separately stimulated. The clitoris, right at the front, the cervix, right deep inside and the walls of the vagina. Maybe your ex managed to reach to the back of your vagina and hit the cervix, which can generate a great orgasm. However the clitoris and the vaginal walls can each generate an orgasm if stimulated properly.

Type "female orgasm" in Google and you'll be suprised how many ideas it'll give you. It could keep you trying new things for the next few years!

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A female reader, LNC United Kingdom +, writes (26 September 2007):

LNC agony aunthey, size really doesn't matter that much. try talking him into being a bit kinky by dressing up even using sex toys.

but talk to him about it don't tell him about your ex but inform your boyfriend of this.

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