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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Guess you can see from the title, I'm kinda worried that I won't be able to really satisfy my girl 'cause I'm not really endowed down there - and I'm actually still a virgin so I've got no real experience going into my first time.Anyway, I'm fully aware of the "size doesn't matter to a girl, it's how you use it" jazz, but yeah. I really dunno how to "use" it, lol. .A lot of the "techniques" I've read/watched have always had a average-large sized penis as the example and I'm doubtful that I can do that.So do any of you guys and gals have any great tips, techniques, and personal experiences you can share with me? I wanna be able to sweep her off her feet and make her feel so great. :((And if you must know, my package stands at 4.8 inches long and 4 inches in circumference while erect)
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reader, Caring Stranger  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 DO NOT look at porn movies for tips on how to satisfy your girl....
1. they will make you paranoid about the size of your mister because they usually only use men with HUGE ones. they are not representative of the national average!!
2. the sex in porn movies is ridiculous a lot of the time with lots of moaning and thrusting and almost no passion or thought.
just so you know, most girls are actually unable to orgasm through penetration alone so it doesnt matter if you have a tiny one or a huge one...your gunna need to do something else to satisfy her!!
i think you first need to make sure you feel ready to have sex. you shouldnt do it unless you are 100% sure you are ready and have contraception to use (condoms are the best because they can prevent pregnancy and diseases).
when you eventually do it make sure that you take it slow (especially if she is a virgin too!). make sure you do plenty of foreplay to get you both excited and ready to have penetrative sex. then just go for it...and if you really want to please her make sure you stimulate her clitoris (gently though because it is very sensitive). ask her what she wants you to do..talk to each other, experiment with different positions. Her on top will be a good one for you because it allows the girl to control how deep she wants it and the pace as well!!
just experiment and enjoy....but please play safe (condoms all the way please) xxx
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