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writes: My boyfriend & I have been together for now 9 months. He is 23 and I am 19. I'm his first real G/F & his 3rd sexual partner. And, I have had my share and most of them were ***holes. We have a great relationship get along well; everything is perfect except for the fact that he is very inexperienced in the bedroom. I mean he's good and all but he dosn't make me want to have sex. It's really hard to get me in the mood anymore & I'm starting to feel like our relationship is hopeless without affection of that sort. We used to do it 2-3 times a day & now we're both lucky if we get some once a week. Whenever I go to his house, we just do the same thing night after night after night and I just end up falling asleep. Then going home & going to work & then do it all over again with him. And, when we do have intercourse we start & shortly after he ejaculates then wants to continue again & for me that kinda ruins it. But every single time we have sex he does this so I have gotten used to it, but sometimes I get mad. We love each other so very much and I would do anything to save our relationship. That I even told him that maybe he needs to experience with another woman to get some more experience. But he's not comfortable with that & I'm not positive if that's what I need to resort to. PLEASE HELP WE LOVE EACH OTHER & WE NEED HELP!
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reader, LoveDoctor +, writes (14 May 2005):
get a Kama Sutra book this will excite you and you get find different ways
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reader, brutaltruth +, writes (10 May 2005):
go down the hardwear storeget some of that plastic sheeting to protect your carpet, spread it of the floor and get a bottle of baby oil- get the picture!Failing that! chocolate spread- encourages all sorts of oral funORget a brazillian/hollywood! its v good fun and also if you go somewhere good to get it done it only hurts for a short time!Failing that dump him- i believe it should be 50:50 and he has to have imagination too- if hes a virgo run for the hills!
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reader, angelus +, writes (10 May 2005):
I understand your frustration but sending him to another woman is not the answer. That is the sure way of breaking up your relationship. Have you tried suggesting role playing or introducing toys to your sex life? Find out his fantasies, talk to each other about what you want from one another. You can't be expected to read each others' minds. Let him know what it is you want out of your sex life. Have fun with it. Don't make it such an issue that it becomes a chore. good luck and enjoy
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