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Sex is painful, but I want to please my partner. Please help

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Question - (1 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2008)
A female Botswana age 26-29, mikky writes:

i'm 26 years old and i have a problem.sex is so painful and i have never enjoyed it.i also dont come becoz i concentrate on the pain to much.when i get wet its too much so i cant say i'm not lubricating during sex.i'm now about to get engenged with a man i love so much but we havent slept together coz we wanted to wait,what if i dont satisfiy him when that time come.i dont want to be ding it ti please him and suffer the pain.so can you help me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008):

Losen up, relax and take it easy. Dont be too tense while doing it because that is probably one of the reasons it is causeing you pain. I love to have sex, the first time hurt a bit but then I got used to it now I am having regular sex with my boyfriend. Im sure if you find the right person you will enjoy it more just relax and try to find it pleasurable. Good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008):

sex hurts mii 2 but try it and well u losen up and it dont hurt so much trust mii im 18 and i av ad sex bout 20 times (with a condom )and at first it hurt and now it is SO plesurable !!!! I love 2 av sex now IT'S GR8 !!!!!so try it !!

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2008):

Annalisa agony auntIf you get really wet but still hurt during sex, you need medical advice. It could be an STD or infection. Get checked soon, I'm sure there's no need for further suffering!

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008):

Hi Hunny,

This could be so many different things and I can understand your worrys and concerns, Im sending you a link that may help you, I would book an apointment with your doctor to get a check up hunny...

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/painfulintercourse.htm

I hope this helps a little hunny TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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