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Sex has become routine after a year together. Anyone got any tips to spice it up a bit?

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Question - (31 August 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, anonymous writes:

Me and my bf have been together for over a year and have been having sex for about a year and things in the bedroom feel like a routine.

can u help me maybe give me tips on how i can spice up our sex life please, we like extreme things to do, its just we don't know what else to do then what we already have please help us !

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (1 September 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntOooh! Go to an adult store together! Tons of toys = tons of fun! Try scarves (tying each other up or blindfolding each other), or maybe busting out some vibrators (not just fun for you!!). Adult toy stores are SO. MUCH. FUN. to explore together - get some ideas and be crafty. Even something as simple as ice cubes can turn plain ol' missionary position into something AMAZING.

Have fun fun fun fun!

xxIndia

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntTry different positions, or having sex at different times of the day. If you normally do it at night, try the morning or the afternoon. Surprise him by initiating sex when he least expects it. Try dressing up, sex toys, food etc

xxxxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007):

try doing it in different places! anywhere you can think of.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007):

After only a year!!! bored already, You are obviously not that turned on by each other. I have been with my man a year, (both 48) and we cant get enough.

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A female reader, spanna United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2007):

spanna agony auntWell you are too young to be having sex really especially as you have been having it for a year. i hope you are practicing safe sex. if you want to spice thing up a bit then try different positions, go onto wiki and search it they have alot. try using choc sauce or cream to lick off each other. oral there are endless options an to be bored by the time you are max 15 how r you gonn afeel when you are 20.

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