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writes:A lot of the time I feel like my boyfriend isn't into me sexually, and its getting on my nerves. My boyfriend has a bit of a problem where he cannot ejaculate with me, but he has been able to with previous girlfriends, seems I found out the reason forthis is because i'm not very good at hand jobs. Anyway, I just feel like he isn't interested in me sexually in anyway and its really getting me down, he only ever wants to have sex with me very rarely, when I want it I don't get it, and it all seems rather unfair. When we do have sex, its normally good, but very awkward.I just feel a bit embarassed and rather self concsious, and this just seems to errect a huge barrier between us when it comes to connected sexually on any emotional level, it does get to the point now that whenever he does iniate sex which is rarely I end up pushing him away, as I just don't like the embarassment of me finishing and not him. His penis is also bent, so it makes hand jobs for me harder, however due to sex between both of us just being awkward and rather dissapointing I don't really have enough courage to ask him how to do it, or how he likes it just because I might fluff it up and then look stupid. Any suggestions? p.s I have told him that i'm self concious with him, and I have admitted to him that i'm not that good with handjobs, even though with my previous boyfriend that has never been a problem. I'm just now stumped for what to do.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (9 February 2013):
 Ask him how he likes to be stroked n have him show u. Its not difficult.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2013): You mention in your post that his penis is bent. Do you mean slightly bent like a banana or really badly bent into a U shape?
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