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Sending the wrong signals?

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Question - (28 April 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay so ive seen this guy around my school and i use to not like him because i though he was cocky or whatever, lets call him JA. My friend needed a ride and JA was with him and some other friends of mine. Well JA was trying to get with me the whole night, he flirted with me and showed me hes not like the type of guy that i assumed he was.

well JA was basically on me the whole night he let me lay in his arms and he laid in mine, he wanted to sit by me, talk to me carry on a conversation and told me i was cute. we ended up falling asleep and he put his arms around me. then afterward we exchanged numbers.

He texted me to see how im doing and he asked me to drop his stuff off at his house and i did and he told me he would love to hang out again and he texted me sayng that we should speak and hang arouund each other at school

So I see JA at school and we speak and walk to class together but when someone ask him about me he would be like she wants me, shes feeling me, shes digging me. at first it didnt bother me until he said that he just wanted to be friends. People ask him if we text and stuff and he gets al nervous saying yeah or when people walk with him and they speak to me he'll ask them why the talk to me and stuff...but he was the one making an effort to "get with" me. Now we hardly speak.

People tell me that hes just going to use me for money (which i gave to him once) and that he only wanted something from me that night thats why he was trying to get close to me that night and now we hardly talk (which he did make a couple refreences about it but other then that we just talked about whatever).

And he got mad when someone called him my man and i corrected them and he keeps bringing up my ex. does he like me or did he just want something that night? idk what to think.

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A female reader, Thisiscrazy Australia +, writes (29 April 2012):

Thisiscrazy agony auntYeah look he was the one throwing himself at you and I'm proud of you for not giving him what he wanted well done hun.

As for his behavior now well it's very strange but maybe it's because you haven't giving in to him so he's had enough or maybe it's because of everyone else getting involved..

Just take a big step back and go about your day not worrying about him and if he really likes you he will come to you if he was just after one thing then good bye to him and think yourself lucky that your not going to be a story he tells his mates..

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (29 April 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntIt is hard to tell, from your post it does sound like he just wanted a bit of fun, but you never gave that to him, so good for you. I think you just need to wait it out and see what happens, if he does genuinely like you then he will make an effort, maybe he has stopped talking to you as much because everyone else is getting involved and talking about it. Just see if he contacts you and if not then forget about him and be glad you had a lucky escape.

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