A
male
age
36-40,
*llIwantIsLove
writes:Hi Friends!Thanks in advance for taking time and giving me your suggestions/advice.I am 31, Indian, 5'6" and recently divorced. I come from a rather conservative background. Didn't really date much outside my culture. I had a very bad relationship with my spouse and things didn't really work out since the very beginning of relationship. I believe in second chances and think that this is my last chance to find true happiness and "soulmate" whom I can love forever (and she loves me back!). I really want to date and get to know women from other cultures. I am very easy-going and laid back but get "stuck" on how to start and continue the conversation with a woman or probably ask her out. I am not really afraid of rejection as I understand that other person is also a human and they may or may not like me. But there is definitely going to be someone who will like me. Can you please suggest or give tips on how to talk to woman and things they usually like to talk about. Not sure if bar scene really works (and I am not really a big drinker). But I am willing to give it a try if it is an option to find someone nice. Does online dating work ? How open are girls to meeting/dating guys outside of their culture? Any advice and suggestion would be much appreciated. Thanks a lot again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2015): Hi
My advice to you, would be to just be yourself. Try not to think about what or how you will say things, be truthful and natural and when your ms right appears conversation will just flow, because you are right for each other. You don't need to sell yourself or prove yourself, just be you and i am sure some body will come along when the time is right. You may have a few false starts but this is natural and a good confidence builder. Please be true and this may be what reflects back.
Good Luck and happy soul mate hunting :)
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