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Scared about my first kiss!

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Question - (28 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *onfused_123 writes:

Ok so I'm really freaking out. Tommorow I'm meeting this guy who i like and i think he's going to kiss me but I'm sooooo nervous and worried that when he leans in I'll turn my head away as i have a habit of really freaking out about these things!

What should i do? I've never been properly alone with a guy before. Infact i nervous about the whole meeting. We txt and see each other at school alot but the first time we were meant to be going out i freaked out and said i wanted to be friends. He still likes me, he even says he LOVES me. Does he mean this or does he just think it's what girls my age want to hear? (i just realised that makes it sound like he's not the same age as me, he is we're both 14) Because it's soooo not. I only LIKE him. Is it ok to enter the relationship if out feelings aren't equal? And is it ok if i was to tell him this? anyway sorry if this question is confusing...just a little scared that's all.

This is kind of urgent as I'm meeting him tommorow at 12am.

ANY advice helpful.

Xxx =]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008):

Dont worry! It'll be fine! If you like the guy then theres nothing stopping you kissing him anyway! but there's a chance he might love you or what he's feeling he considers as love. First kisses can be really random! You'll find that he's probably as nervous as you but just be youself and when the moment comes and it doesn't feel natural just push him away! If he loves you he'll understand and give you more time.

Good Luck

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