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writes:there is the boy that i got to know through a dating site, he was really lovely and great we text each other every day and called each other alot then we decided on meeting up but on the day before he decided that he didnt want to see me anymore, with no valid reason at all, i was heartbroken, i really thought id found someone that i really truly liked but obviously i was totally wrong, i now havent spoken to him in a week, but we did talk after he upset me by not coming and seeing me but now a week and a half has past and i have not said anything to him, shall i call him or text him(not that id get a reply because he never has any credit) but shall i call him, or leave it, but i know if i leave it, he probably wont talk to me again, and i dont think i can handle that im just really stuck i keep telling myself just to ring him, but wont he be suprised or shocked or annoyed =S
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno, ive called his house phone loads, he is 'real' just that he never let me actually meet him, even though he was still in the town at the time but
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (30 April 2008):
 No Darling you move on and find a nice young man in the real world not on a computer screen.He could be anyone and has been feeding you a lot of bullshit.
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (30 April 2008):
 Unfortunately this is quite common. Many people have all the confidence in the world when it's on the Internet, by text, by phone etc., and then completely lose it when it comes to a face-to-face meeting.
It might be that something he told you about himself isn't quite true and he's scared you will now find out, or it might be that he is simply too shy to go through with a meeting. It might even be that any pictures you have seen of him are not him at all, or it might even be that the whole thing was some sort of game to him - unfortunately people do play those sort of games and it can be totally heartbreaking when it happens to you.
You need to be a little careful, because there is clearly something wrong and, taking the "worst case" scenario it could be that he is a completely different person from the one he has made himself out to be. Equally it may be something far more innocent.
I don't think you have anything to lose by calling him and asking why he seems to have changed his mind so suddenly - but please be very careful if you do go to meet him or he comes to meet you, because there is a distinct possibility there is another problem. Make sure there is someone else around when you see him for the first time if you do get that far.
Good luck. I do hope it's something simple and that you can work it out with him.
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