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writes:A lover from my past has been looking for me. After 10 years plus he finally finds me. We do communicate through email only. He reminisces about the past and went through a lot to get to me. When I moved away we were on good terms. Just lost contact. He tells me he has found true love but I say to myself if you found it, looking for me should have left your mind. When I was in love I never once thought about him. My question is does he still have feelings for me or does he really want my friendship? I kinda feel like he is keeping me in his back pocket. Also we had the best sexual chemisty ever! And "no" she doesnt know about me. I asked him to visit me and he said if he did we know what will happen so he won't. Please advise. Reply to this Question
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reader, dyeruz  +, writes (31 July 2010):
He's found true love but still willing to cheat on her...whatta guy!!!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 July 2010):
I think you're asking for a lot of pain by speaking to this guy. It's more than likely that you're being kept around as a spare woman in case something else doesn't work out for him. I think for your own sake you would be better to move on. The last thing you want is to be in an affair only to end up cast aside when he's done. Too many others have had that happen to them.
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