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writes: i reecently split with my boyfriend but i cant stop thinking about him its driving me mad. we agreed to be friends but i think that will hurt me more. it doesnt help that all my mates are all loved up at the moment so im feeling so low constantly and am sick of feeling like this. I think about him all the time unless im out in the pub drinking. any ideas on how to get back to normal. The thing is the guy wasnt even nice to me he never put any effort in but i stll loved him. help please! Reply to this Question |
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reader, jaki +, writes (27 November 2006):
Firstly i am sorry you are in this pain.
you are not ready to be friends, it will hurt you more to see this guy.
you need to distract your mind - change your routine slightly.
i dont want this to sound hard but YOU are allowing him to make you feel the way you are.
Time is a great healer, you didnt have feelings for this guy overnight and the feelings wont go away overnight!!!
you will move on, you are the better person
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reader, Terrie-Anne +, writes (27 November 2006):
If you loved this guy and he hurt you so bad. and you think of him then it's not you're fault he treated you like something he stepped in you are a deasent person you should forget him and start of fresh. build you're confidence back up and show him he did not hurt you because if he see that he hurt you,he will think he's won.
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reader, jaynehaigh +, writes (26 November 2006):
I think the only answer is time. If he wasn nice and didnt put any effort in your definitely better off without him I would also wonder why you would want to stay friends with him? It is natural to miss someone that you love and to also remember the good times and forget the bad times which therefore gives you rose tinted memories. I suggest you dont see him anymore no contact is the best for you at least until you are over him. If he split with you I feel sorry for him he has lost a good one - all the best
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