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Reading Body Language! What's Really on Their Mind?

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Article - (27 April 2008) 2 Comments - (Newest, 29 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, Datingshoes writes:

You fancy your date but how do you know if they are attracted to you? The secrets are here!

When you really fancy the pants off someone you just met, it is an amazing feeling. But unless you know if the feelings are reciprocated then this is also very frustrating.

You just want to know "So do you fancy me or not?" you can't ask that! You can ask what you want, but that is not a question that will help either of you. Your answers are right there in front of you. People give off unspoken signals constantly and when you are on a date it is like a firework display. But only if you know what to look for!

The eyes give the game away.

Lets start with some little known signals. The eyes are a big give-a-way. Most of us have heard that dilated pupils mean attraction and this is true, but this can be confused by low lighting that can also affect our eyes this way. A sure fire way to see attraction is to look for glassy eyes. When someone is aroused by another their body creates moisture in the genital region, what you may not know is, this moisture also builds up in the eyes, giving a glassy appearance. If you get this, yes they are very attracted to you.

You next observation will be to watch the movement of the eyes. Watch how their eyes move around your face. Notice how they move when you first meet and check what happens as the date progresses. What you are looking for is a triangular eye movement, that will go from one eye to a body part and back to the other eye.

Eye to nose to eye - This is a social eye pattern and if this is what you get, then it looks like your just friends. However, still watch to see if this changes into a different pattern as the date progresses.

Eye to mouth to eye -This means there is more attraction as the mouth is a sexual area.

Eye to chest to eye - Definite attraction with a desire to explore.

Eye to genitals to eye - Very full on sexual thoughts. If you are receiving either of these signals, you will now know what is on your date's mind.

Just Imagine....! This is just of many body language secrets that you need to understand what others are feeling about you, without saying a word.

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A female reader, LJ001 United Kingdom +, writes (29 April 2008):

LJ001 agony auntI loved your article! Yes, I want to know more :] very interesting. Thanks for posting :]

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A female reader, happytochat Australia + , writes (27 April 2008):

Very good article! :) I do want to find out more...so perhaps you could write another one :D

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