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writes:Copied from the forum pages - not from me personally!Question to all males:My boyfriend always tells me that he has never met any female who has the kindest, most white heart he has known as me. (I am the only woman he seriously dated) I was always understanding to him, never calls him names, even during fights I always accepted his excuses but will never ever treat him with disrespect.He always tells me this is the reason why he loves me, because I am a very special person and my qualities are rare.The same boyfriend who is now my ex is treating me rudely. Although he never calls me names but replies to my texts coldly with just a "no", "yes", "I don't know". And refuses to pay the money he owes me and delays the the time of payment.I have read about people like this on this site and I keep on wondering, what makes guys turn from someone so respectful become very disrespectful to you..in just a few days difference?During the relationship he was an angel, now he is an ex..he is a monster.What is my fault? I just want my money back and he can afford it very much but is just to stubborn to pay..Thanks for any advise..
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (1 August 2009):
It is best to just forget about the money because more than likely she will never get it back. Anytime you are in a relationship and you are giving out money is best to assume you won't be getting it back. See now the loan is just a excuse to call and check up on him or bother him, where as if he didn't owe her she maybe wouldn't even call. Personally it is not worth the drama and being disrespected if he wants to act like he could care less, Tell his broke but he can keep the money because he must need it worst then she does and start to move on. There is never a excuse to treat someone badly especially if they have always helped you when they needed help and he should really be ashamed of himself but some men have no class. A real man would give her , her money back as soon as he could. Just my opinion lol.
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