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Question about wet dreams

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Question - (30 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok guys (and girls too) what do you feel would bother you the most..

a. your girlfriend has a wet dream about doing it with someone other than you.

or

b.your girlfriend has a dream about having sex with you, but it sucked really really bad..

this is the only dream shes ever had of this nature..

also, when a guy has a wet dream, does he actually feel the sex? or is it just a visual thing?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2011):

Dreams are just dreams, don't get upset by your dreams, your bf or gf dreams, and make sure your reality is good, and real.

Wet dreams do involve orgasms in many people, in men you get ejaculation, in women you get female orgasms.

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A female reader, KeighleySky United Kingdom +, writes (30 April 2011):

KeighleySky agony auntive said this to another poster who had a vageuly similar problem to yours.

Dreams are uncosncious wishes, either FOR something to happen or for it NOT to happen.

This could be with both cases, she doesnt want to be with anyone else and shes scared that shell mess up making love with you.

As a female i would be a bit bothered about my boyfriend having a wet dream about another girl, but id get over it, its just a dream.

The fact that shes told you is a good sign, she doesnt really think anything of it so shes openly told you.

i wouldnt worry too much if i were you, just try your best but remember dreams are dreams its when they become reality that theres a problem. :)

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (30 April 2011):

The Realist agony auntI would be more bothered about the dream of her having bad sex with me but in either way I never really look into dreams in any way that would make me upset.

A wet dream is more of a mental thing. There is the unconcious thoughts but the feeling isn't anything like sex. It's not an orgasm, it is most likely just wetness from being turned on which can happen from thought alone.

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