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Problems in our sex life. I'd like to fix this, but how?

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Question - (7 September 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 September 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, and things seem to be "not that great" during sex. Don't get me wrong my boyfriend and i are very attracted to each other and find plenty of passion during intercourse. But most recently the one thing being left out is foreplay. It seems like in the heating up part of sex now, there is no "heating up". Its like neither one of us wants to do work to arouse the other. Now I will say my boyfriend does not need aroused, but I do.. And most ladies will agree. I talked to him about this briefly and he agrees that we both seem to not want to do work.. One thing I will add though is 75 percent of the time I preform oral sex after intercourse. Is he not that interested in me anymore? Or not attracted to me? I'd like to fix this, but I don't know how

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A female reader, Pretty and proud United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2012):

Pretty and proud agony auntI had the same problem,no had a unique idea. I brought the newspaper and took the crossword out, in the crossword I wrote.

"you look so hot I want to 69 right now"

Worked like a charm. We done 69, pleasured each other then had hot hot hot sex! It worked, such a simple wierd idea I know x

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A male reader, Xearo Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (7 September 2012):

Talk to him about it and tell him exactly what you want. If its something he says that you both do not work to it then you will also need to work on it. Oral sex doesn't really count as foreplay since it is after intercourse.

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