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Premature ejaculation.... Should I ask him to go twice?

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Question - (28 May 2010) 10 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2010)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi this is a question about my boyfriend, every time we try to have sex he seems to come before we even get it in!! Sometimes there isn't even any foreplay hardly!! Should I ask him to come once and then go again?? He doesn't loose his erection and were both young so that shouldn't be hard should it?! Any help from guys would be appreciated xx

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A male reader, george3 United States +, writes (19 June 2010):

george3 agony auntthe guy can be masturbated first, and youll enjoy the show...then pounce upon him with a juncle fever

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010):

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So we went to the doctors, the doctor said it was normall as it was his first sexuall relationship... He was like "this is totally normal" and "over time you(him) will be able to control it and hold in for longer natrually" ... Anyway that wasn't any help at all except for him because he now feels "normal". I don't mean that in a cruel way I'm happy fir him it's just not the outcome i intended for.

Thanks anonymous male I've told him to stay away from red meat, eat bannanas and look up male kegel excersises!!

Thanks you guys

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010):

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Hey guys thatnks for the advice!! Especially anonymous male with the medical stuff, I will ask him to go to the doctors and I'll update you guys on it when appropriate xx

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A female reader, ChristineAvril United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2010):

ChristineAvril agony auntCould "anonymous" provide an identity so that we can PM you? Your contact information was blocked.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010):

Ok, well, in Australia we do have these consultants who call themselves AMI (Australian Medical Institute), now they do sound dodgey just by the tv ads, but I have the same issue, unfortunately ive had the problem since i was 16, im no 29..

I only recently saw them, now, im sure they can send you a booklet, otherwise i can scan it in for you,,..

There is also a SSRI (Anti Psychotic) which is the main chemical used in their medication along with some vitamins n stufgf which aint really heklpful, ya might as well eat bnanas n stff

+ STAY away from RED MEAT

no more than once a fortnight

but yes, Bananas are very good...

Getya boy to go to the docs and ask for: CLOMIPRAMINE

You take no more than 10-20mg every 2nd day

now im approx 90kg so if hes a lils maller in kg's

try 10-15mg

they coimeme in 40mg pills, so use a knife to chop em

there are physical exericses to do

theres that basic relax and tense exerise which is well knwn of

abd tgeres KEGAL exercses

its like when a dog has worms on their butt and they try to scrape their btt on the floor

but instead ya legs need to be straight

ontop if ya comfy with ya partner n vice versa

do the start stop

it may be booring for the chick

but it will teach the guy he's point of no return

WORST CASE

one I don t like cos Im onit for pain relief

is TRAMADOL HCL

its a synthetic morphine

but they sell em in nasal sprays in small doses

but ya can simply get tramadol from yya doc

cut it into whatever dose ya require

and snort it

for the SSRI, it can take 4 weeks to work

I hpoe this helps

... At the moment, i consider myself a master

when you go for 14-18hrs a day, i think you'd have that opinoin yaself

well the guy would

the chick would be ouchies :P

any questions: msn [email address blocked] -- email: [email address blocked]

take care

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (28 May 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntOral, darling. Try.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010):

Yeah thats pretty unfair for you. you need to make him cum first before sex, then he foreplays so he gets hard again then im sure itll last longer.

Hopefully....

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A male reader, Honest Answer United States +, writes (28 May 2010):

Honest Answer agony auntYou could look at it time way: You are so friggin hot that just the sight of you makes him explode. But that is still no reason for his to be a lousy lover.

I suggest that before the next time you have sex, he needs to get the first load off by himself (masterbation). It takes a while for men to recover after reaching orgasm. Some guys a few minutes, and others a few hours. Err on the side of 2 hours to be safe. Have him rub one off (masterbate) 2 hours prior to your love making, and by the time you two go for round two, he should be good to go.

Don't settle for a 2 minute man. Sex should be mutually gratifying.

Good Luck!

Jeff

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (28 May 2010):

LazyGuy agony auntI think you need to be a bit more forceful in the relationship.

He is getting what he wants, but you ain't and it doesn't seem he is making any effort at all. No foreplay, no afterplay. Doing it just once. What is the difference between you and a blowup doll?

Read up on how to deal with premature ejaculation, but before that, read up on how to deal with self-centered lovers.

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A female reader, ChristineAvril United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2010):

ChristineAvril agony auntWhy does it all have to end so quickly? And no foreplay!

He owes it to you to bring you off once or twice before penetration, and then you will be more ready; and if you give him a BJ as well, before he penetrates you, still hard, you will have a much better time, both of you!

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