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writes:I was 5 months pregnant when my Husband asked me to leave our home because he said he was miserable due to our fighting and bickering. We used to fight about fidelity issues on my behalf. Prior to me getting pregnant, he said he was over those issues. Now that Im pregnant, those issues are all he talks about. He still wanted to see me on weekend mornings for sex but never had anytime to take me to dinner or a movie. He never spent any time with me during the Holidays, even though I begged for him to spend Christmas and New Years with me. Now that he's stopped hanging out with his friends,he wants me to come back home. Should I believe him and take this as a cured crazy man's spell? Or should I go back and run the risk of him kicking me out again...this time with child? I'm currently living with my folks and it is a peaceful and loving home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): I wouldnt even consider moving back, he will not change so enjoy your peaceful safe happy time with your loving family, and one day when youre least expecting it your Mr Right will be just behind you. Good luck, it will happen and you will then reflect back and ask yourself why you even considered this option. Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much everybody for the advice...I honestly didn't think anyone would answer! Your comments have helped my decision-making. I will stay at my parents' home until I am stable enough to get a place of my own. I think I'll wait on retaining legal counsel untill after the baby is born. Thank you again very much everybody! Your comments are greatly appreciated!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 I'm with all the girls. It's best for you to stay where you are, but defend your rights. It was really awful of him to kick the mother of his child, his wife, out of the home.
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reader, maggie1987  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 you should stay livin with your folks for a while and see what happens in a few month when your baby has had a good happy stable home
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (26 January 2008):
 I'm with Waterloo Sunset. Why on earth did you leave home? You have legal rights here! Stay put at your parents house and get legal council. You need to think about you and the baby right now. He should be supporting the child and you have a right to half of the marital assets. If you fight that much, you should probably legally separate and ask for a divorce.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): Hi, sorry to hear about all your horrible times. If i was you i would tell him to buggar off! What gives him the right to kick you out? Why cant you kick him out of the house? Why should you be the one to go looking for shelter? sorry, but i think you would be mad to go back with this oafish pig! Dont take yourself and your unborn baby back. You are right, he probably will kick you out in the future with your child. Stay put with the family until you are able to get yourself on your own two feet with your baby. But please do not go back, nothing will of changed.
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reader, Serinity +, writes (26 January 2008):
 If it's peaceful and loving where you are and your parents are welcoming you into their home, then why not stay? You're pregnant, why even risk it?!? The last think you need is the stress from an insecure husband.
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