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writes: I found out I was pregnant this morning and havent told anyone. My fiance and I decided we didnt want kids yet as we are way too busy with our jobs (hes a rugby player and i am a busy primary school teacher). Neither of us believe in abortion and i think we would make great parents but I don't know how to tell him. I don't want to just say im pregnant, i want to say it so that he feels he can express how he feels. I wont be seeing him face to face on his own until thursday as his little sister is staying over. How should i tell him? How will I be able to juggle being a newly qualified teacher with my first ever class and have a baby? How will I cope with my fiance being away training and playing half the year? How will we make time for our relationship, work and our newborn baby? Am i just being a panicker? Please help particularly if youve been in a similar situation. I am 23 and my fiance is 20.
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (16 August 2011):
dont panick is the first thing i would hold off on telling your boyfriend just yet figure out how you feel about this yourself first then just tell him you need to talk to him and just explain how you feel and ask him to do the same and both figure out what you want
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reader, Mummy86 +, writes (16 August 2011):
 first of all congratulations! you need to tell him asap and face to face your obviously much inlove with eachother and im a firm believer things happen for a reason, as long as you have your family and his they will support you during your pregnancy and when you want to go back to work, also when your boyfriend is away good luck x
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reader, cheers  +, writes (16 August 2011):
 Be brave to talk to him. You need to face it sooner or later.See his reactions.Both of you are responsible for this happening. Fiance? not official marriage yet? Pls arrange soon. I knew a teacher who still working till one month before delivery time.
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