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Pregnant again. Can't tell my mom, what do I do?

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Question - (15 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2010)
A female Australia age 26-29, *ossibly Prego writes:

Ok so about 5 months ago i thought i was pregnant (im 15) and i told my mum and she had a massive fight with me. she was so ashamed of me (she told me) and i felt like shit for so long. I promised her i wouldnt have sex till i was old enough and i had sex 3 days ago and ive missed my period. If i am pregnant i cant tell her. I cant break her heart. And how much do abortions cost? what should i do about telling her?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010):

You obviously don't care that much about your mum if you can't be arsed to even use protection. When you get older and look back you will realise how young you are.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010):

i agree with person12345 there is no way to know whether you are pregnant 3 days after you had sex. Go to your local county health clinic and ask to talk to the nurse. She can answer any questions you have, and advise you if you are pregnant, and educate you about birth control options if you arent. Please dont take chances again. Hugs, mal

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (15 July 2010):

person12345 agony auntHere's what you do. You use birth control. You need to be on the pill, with an IUD or using condoms. Otherwise you shouldn't be having sex. Period. Why aren't you using condoms? You could also catch something. Like AIDS.

Now onto whether or not you're pregnant, you can't know you're pregnant three days after having sex. You need to wait a bit and take a pregnancy test. Otherwise, in most states you can't have an abortion without parental consent under 16, in some states 18. After your last act of intercourse, you could have taken the plan B pill, or something. Unfortunately if you are pregnant you'll probably need to tell your mom. Call planned parenthood first to find out some more about the laws. Didn't the first time you were pregnant make you want to use protection next time?

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