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writes: So I had never watched porn with my boyfriend before. I am kind of in the insecure side when it comes to my body, so I thought it'd be disastrous for him especially since it'd probably put me off sex for the night.Last weekend we went on a trip, and we went to a hotel. He told me we could watch some porn, for a laugh, so I'd see it's no big deal. I decided to go for it, as I was going to watch it in that kind of humorous mood. Of course it wasn't really funny after the two next minutes... it was actually a turn on!I kept looking at these people having sex and in my mind all that I could thought about how was me and my boyfriend would be doing the same in 3, 2, 1... and we looked into each others eyes and forgot about the screen.So I was proved wrong from what I initially had thought. Of course I also realized that the girls usually have nasty faces. Well some of them, but that it really is more about the acts.I could tell that my boyfriend was enjoying it more because he had me right next to him than because of the women. He then focused on me and well... you can guess what happened. Why don't you find out? Your partner will be extremely pleased. It's really about watching, getting those ideas and knowing that you'll be getting down and dirty with the person next to you, not because the person on the screen is better looking than your partner.Of course I wouldn't recommend this to women who have moral issues with porn, or who have partners with porn addiction, as it's understandable, but if it's only a mild insecurity that's holding you back, then it's really worth the effort of trying. I wouldn't rely on it, but it's definitely nice every once in a while. It was very erotic for me.So happy watching, I had a very positive experience!
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reader, TannedDoll  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 Oh wow. It's probably true that when you watch porn you'll want your partner to be near you.. Not that I watch porn but even for romantic movies! Anyway, gotta try that out some day ;) Cheers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): Great article and sorely needed to challenge the view that ALL WOMEN hate pornography, or that it is always disgusting, damages sex lives and stops true intimacy. Thanks babes, for your honesty and sharing your experiences with us. Yes as you notice it can be quiet fun, and the idea that these women are always beautiful, stunning, and a threat to us, is actually very wrong. Your guy is very lucky to be with someone like you, and I'm sure that he knows this too... Thanks again for your article.
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reader, sommerslover  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 These are points about porn I've been trying to stress for a long time. Too many times women pre-judge it and right away get upset about their partner watching it, but have never watched it themselves. Hopefully some will take your advice and finally watch it and get turned on like you did.
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