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People around me are smokers and I'm concerned I will become addicted too. How can I avoid this?

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Question - (8 September 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2006)
A female , Catlova writes:

Both of my parents were smokers, and so are many of my relatives and some of my really close friends. Also, all of my brothers chew snuff. I am having to make a really difficult decision whether or not to smoke. I know it is hazardous to your health, but I may become addicted, with all of these people who I am around who do it.

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A female reader, helpful girl United Kingdom +, writes (19 September 2006):

helpful girl agony auntor you have to do is say no simple never say yes! and in time to come when you have a life of your own young children a loveing wife and you visit them down the cancer ward youll think im happy i said no! that could of been me i would of been leaveing my children and wife behind! and the way they look when they are dieing through cancer its horrible! maybe if your haveing second thoughts about smoking then get your self down the cancer ward and see them who are dieing youll soon know your answer then to weather you want to smoke or not!

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A female reader, ariel United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2006):

ariel agony auntIf they say jump into the fire,will you? Be a leader not a follower.DON'T SMOKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2006):

bonym agony auntAgree totally with Martini, you have to avoid them, I havr to do it as well as I cant physically take the smell of it, it causes migraines and asthma attacks. You need to tell them that it bothers you and ask them just for your benefit if they could smoke away from you. Take care. xXx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006):

Dear Catlova

Don't ever start in anyway, shape, or form. You will become addicted and it is costly to boot! Keep thinking of your health and try your best to stay away from others whilest they are smoking.

Check out some of the many helpful websites about the risks and hazzards of somking, http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/drug_alcohol/tobacco/smoking.html

You are making the right choice to not start!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006):

Hya

Don't smoke!! Make the choice NOW!

I speak from experience, I smoke. At the moment I smoke between 20-30 a day. When I first stupidly started smoking I only smoked about 5 a day but it soon increases over time, and when it does you blame it on being "a social smoker" or "I smoke more in the pub" etc, it's all rubbish, it's pure addiction.

This addiction costs me a fortune, it makes my home smell, me smell. I tried giving up and failed, but will try again, but if I had the choice to go back to when I was first handed that cigarette I'd tell them to bog off!!!!!

Be strong, sometimes doing what others are doing just isn't the cool thing to do, they'll envy you in years to come

xxx

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A male reader, martini Canada +, writes (8 September 2006):

martini agony auntAvoid the smokers, or tell them the hazardous of smoking and tobacco, and how it effects you. If they don't listen and change, then change yourself - move out, live somewhere else. It's really a lot easier to stay away from tobacco than to quit after using it for awhile.

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