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Penis is too short for sex!

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Question - (7 November 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2010)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ladies, would you seriously consider having an ongoing sexual relationship with a guy whose erect penis isn't long enough to reach the end of your vagina? By 'end', I mean the point at which anything longer would cause a longitudinal stretch.

Is something around 4.5" pretty close to the cut off point in terms of acceptable length for the average woman who hasn't given birth? By 4.5", I mean the measured length with the ruler pressing into the guy's pubes.

What are most of your friend's minimum lengths?

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (8 November 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony aunt4.5 is a very decent length and quite enough to stimulate the important nerves. Your problem might be more between your ears than between your legs.

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A male reader, Latino201 United States +, writes (7 November 2010):

Dude, it does not matter. Sex is not only about penis size. I have about 7.5 and I have to tell you, some of the women I've been with thought it was tiny while others thought it was huge. So, it all depends on the ladies. All women are different down there. All you need to do is be open. If you believe there is an issue with a woman you are having sex with, just ask! Is she comfortable with it or not. If the answer is not, you can either move on or try other means, oral, toys, sleeves etc.. it's all about stimulation.. so using your fingers or having her play with herself are also great ways to stimulate.

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A female reader, AuntieSnap United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2010):

Hi Sweets,

Its not the length but what you can do with it so size definately should not be an issue. Not every woman, fortunately is obsessed with length and I think most men average around 4-7 inches so you're perfectly fine. My ex was fairly small but boooyeh!!! He is married with four kids and has been very happily so for the last 18 years.

I would take the first annonymous post with a large, very large pinch of salt.

You are a perfectly normal healthy young man. Go get em Tiger!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010):

Have you measured it accurately? Is that is your flacid or your erect length? Either way your problem is huge, for you. Because your problem would be apparent to any woman. And even in the dark the woman would recognise the extent of the problem you have. You no doubt investigated many solutions, but clearly none have worked to address this short-coming. I have heard that some Japanese men have to resort to using an extension when having relations with woman who are normal sized. You could try to find a woman who is 'very very exceptionally small ' but then any male children you father would inherit your size problem. . You could use a strap-on that lesbians use. But some girls may object. And there is an operation that a Doctor can do to add a tiny bit extra, but it may not be enough to make a significant difference to your length, considering your existing deficit. . The last alternative is to consider becoming a Catholic Priest where a work requirement is celibacy. It is very unlikely you will find a woman satisfied with just the tip end inside her. Of course you could find a petite lady whose vagina is abnormally small.

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A female reader, SexyGirl16 United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2010):

Well actually

most women don't care about length. All te vaginal nerves are at the beginning , thickness is what counts!

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