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Overactive Sex Drive at My Age?

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Question - (21 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2010)
A female Canada age 26-29, *ikki Nikkles writes:

Hello everyone! So, I've got a little bit of a problem... I'm 16 years old, and I know for a fact that I have an overactive libido. Before, I used to masturbate every day. I've settled down a bit - but that's only because I've become busier and don't have time to do it anymore. But when I do pleasure myself, I do it at least 3 times in one sitting. Right now it averages on 3-4 days a week. I know masturbation is healthy and all that, but I really wish I would stop. Also, I'm the kind of person who wants to wait until after I finish school to have sex (I'm a virgin) - but recently, I've been craving it with my boyfriend (who is not a virgin). But I'm terrified of getting pregnant and I'd really rather not take care of a baby during school. So here are my questions regarding this:

1.) Does your libido have anything to do with your clitoris size? Because mine... Not so small. It's actually grotesque and rather large.

2.) Is my libido something to be frowned upon?

3.) How can I deal with this whole situation with my boyfriend?

Sorry this is sort of like my last question, but... I guess it's sort of different. Anyway, thanks for your time!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010):

If you're anything like I was at 16 your hormones are raging. They will eventually settle down, probably flare up again, and settle down again. I was self conscious about my girl parts at first too but just keep in mind porn stars and whatnot generally have unusually small ones so don't base anything on those girls.

Oh, and HIGH FIVE for putting school first!! You are wise beyond your years little grasshopper (^_^)

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (22 July 2010):

DoubleM agony auntIn my opinion:

1. You're normal, and size probably doesn't matter. Don't think of it as grotesque - every woman looks somewhat different. It's ok.

2. No, that's normal too. Why resist what's healthy?

3. Do as you wish. Either wait (best), properly employ birth control if necessary or pleasure each other with mutual masturbation or oral activities.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010):

Daily masturbation is fine, especially at your age - it relieves stress and helps you to resist having penetrative intercoure until you are really ready.

And why not do it daily, for however many times you feel the need - it won't harm you!

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