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anonymous
writes: Me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time a few days ago...it didnt work out too well. We didnt use lubricant and foreplayed only a little bit. When he tried to enter me, I was too tight and after 30 minutes of trying we eventually gave up and decided he was too big and I was too tight to have intercourse. I was afraid of this happening, it was embarrassing for the both of us and he seems to blame himself for what happened. I repeatedly told him that its not his fault but I dont think his ego will ever recover. What can I do to put this expeirence in the past and forget about it before it ruins our relationship? Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2005): Do it again - much slower, much sexier.Make sure you're fully wet AND that he has a full erection before he enters you. If both of these conditions are not satisfied, then just have more foreplay fun!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2005): Hey dont worry about it, tell him not to worry. It happens to everyone at first. Just do more foreplay and take your time, its important you are very relaxed to or he wont be able to enter you.smiles and hugsyour agony aunt
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2005): do it again with lubricant
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