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writes:Can anyone help i went on a date the other day,we both agreed we had a gr8 time and we will do it again, i sent him a email regarding us meeting up again and ask him can it be once a week just to get to know each other again, i know he works 7 days a week and is very busy his always been a workaholic has long has ive known him. I did say to him i not looking for you to be my BF i just want some time to get to know you again to see if or where it could lead.The first email he sent he said he has no time for a GF point blank now he is saying this..im confused can anyone help:He writesWhat normally happens is i start seeing someone then a month down the line they start complaining that they only see me every two weeks Or that i put them behind everyone else kids, family, friends.I never said I would not be with you but what I am saying is that before i even think of making a promise about being with you i would need to get to know you again to see if we are on the same page.I do not go through different partners them days are gone – and yes I am looking for someone but that is not my priority when it happens it will happenAnd whether its you or someone else only God know.Now regarding me wanting to sleep with you – yes i did I am physically attracted to you (we both have always known this)However if that makes you feel away I will retrain, when i see you, from making those types of advances.There is no reason for us to fall out the other day I was taking you out cause I wanted YOU to have a good time and I wanted to spoil YOU.I was just mad happy to see you after all these years – I did not ask anything of you and when you told me we could not (s*x)I did not drop you home or ask you to leave – I woke up and made you toastYes i kissed and hugged you but you returned the favour.Now with all these texts – it is quite upsetting that you want to say good buy and not “blank me” as you put it because I am being honest with you and telling you how it is in my world?I don’t get that.Please help what does he want
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): SIMPLICITY. You are obviously a pain in his ass. Here he is busting his butt working all these hours and here you are trying to get promises and meetings and what little time he has left. Find someone else who has time for you. He has time to have sex with you, but no time for a relationship. So if you want to have an FWB then he's a good choice, but not BF material. Move on.
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reader, Emilysanswers + ♥, writes (23 November 2008):
Well it seems he wanted to take it slow and casual and even though you said you didn't want a boyfriend, you were trying to tell him how often he had to see you and it freaked him out.
Put it down to experience and move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): If all the things he wrote were texts, to get the complete picture I think I'd need to know what you replied to each of the texts that he sent you.
Otherwise, I'm as baffled as you seem to be.
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