A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hello all, I've recently been showing an interest in a girl at my local church, we both get along fine and talk to eachother.I emailed her to suggest we watch a film sometime. She emailed me back a few days later and said she will do a film sometime. However firstly, she mentioned if I'd be interested to come to a local play with her and another girl from the church. OK, how are you reading this? Has anyone got any ideas if she's interested, not sure, politely saying no? All help really appreciated! Thank you all!!! Reply to this Question |
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reader, malvern +, writes (27 April 2008):
Take up her invitation to go to see the play. She's obviously interested in you or she would not have asked you. She probrably feels much much comfortable to be in her own familiar surroundings until she gets to know you better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): Go to the play with her and her friend. Then ask her directly for a date, a film and dinner. If she says no, you have your answer and you have only wasted one evening going to a play. Perhaps she feels a little safer with someone else there....are your relatively inexperienced at dating?
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male
reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (27 April 2008):
 I think you don't have enough information to know for sure. However, it does sound like she is brushing you off. She didn't want to go to the movie with you, and now she's inviting you to go to an "innocent" place, and then with a third person. When in doubt, don't insist.
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