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writes:I have been dating a guy for 4 months now. We met on a dating webiste. We have both been married and divorced. His divorce was really bad. We are both scared but both have feelings for each other. He hasrecently told me he does not want to get married again and I am o.k. with that. I told him I was looking for a "long term relationship" growing old with someone, etc. but not necessarily looking for marriage. He stated that he feels a relationship with someone will eventually lead to marriage. I told him that maybe I should start dating other people and he looked me in the eyes and told me that he was not looking for anyone else. I don't know what to do or what to think. He also stated that when he starts feeling close to me he backs away.I really like this guy and don't want to end this relationship and think maybe he just needs more time. I am fixing to loose my house and he has offered to let me move in with him. what should I think or do?
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reader, vizzy  +, writes (25 December 2010):
Well I think by him offering you to move in with him, he takes a chance to have a relationship with you. He likes you and wants to be with you, but it might just being trauma, from his last marriage. But I think it won't matter, because if you and he finally enter into a relationship, he might change his mind. He might want to get married again. Beside, he will not marry the same type person he had divorced, and I think one marriage might be different from the other ones. It just completely depends to the married person and how they would like their marriage to be. So why don't you give it a chance too and let it just flow?
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