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*oates
writes:hi everyone,I have communicating with an acquarius woman for more than 3 months now.I am 23 and she is 40.Despite the age difference we have talked about everything. Her life, marriage, children, her passion, dreams, EVERYTHING!! Same with me. We have told each other our most dear secrets.We have swapped nude pictures too. She said she liked my genitals and body.We have roll played her sexual fantasies and etc. She has told me how she likes her foreplay, her genital licking and etc.Moreover, she says I am very mature person for my age.Now, the problem is , she said it is very unlikely we would ever meet up.She just wants to continue chatting. She prefers a "special online friendship".But she knows that I want to have sex with her.Throughout these 3 months , she has every now and then said that if I did not want to continue this friendship, let her know about it.How can I come around the hurddle of special friendship and convince her to have sex with me?
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reader, coates +, writes (25 March 2011):
coates is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok. I discussed it with her on email. She does see me as her escape world. She does not want to go any deeper than email.
I will break the contact.Thank you everyone.
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reader, coates +, writes (24 March 2011):
coates is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank yo for the answers.I did the least expected thing. I fired off an email explaining that she might be someone else hence wants to see her in person to ensure I am not sharing my sensitive matters with some spam robot or a dude.What if we had been pouring our energies into a friendship that later on turns out to be someone else? Is it better to put that energy on our life missions?That is what I wrote to her albeit with a lot more supporting statements.Awaiting an answer.Thank you people for opening my eyes. I will keep returning to this question with more updates.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 She's just playing around on the internet. Take it at it's face value. Nothing but talk is going to happen here I'm afraid.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 Ok well i apologise for misunderstanding that. But still she has made it clear she doesnt want anything more than an online friendship whatever her reasons are I guess you just need to respect her wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): "She said she liked my genitals and body."
Very formal, very proper.... good boy.
"she said it is very unlikely we would ever meet up" I can imagine, women are very good at keeping guys at bay....
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reader, idoneitagain +, writes (24 March 2011):
From time to time you can keep letting her know that you want to meet with her in person, and that you are interested in having sex with her, but its up to her if she decides that she feels the same as you, or doesn't.
The way for you to "convince" her to have sex with you is by continuing your contact with her, developing your online relationship and letting her interest in you grow to the point where she wants to meet you, and maybe even have sex with you at some point. In a sense, its called courtship :)
Just be honest and true to yourself, and let her continue to get to know you. Its up to her if she wants to meet you, you can only make yourself availble and let her decide.
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reader, coates +, writes (24 March 2011):
coates is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBy the way, the lady is singel.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (23 March 2011):
There is no way to go around it Im afraid. She has made it clear to you that all she is looking for is an online friendship. You mention that she has spoke about her marriage and children, therefore I am assuming that she is still married. If that is the case then it is probably the fact that she doesnt actually want to cheat physically on her husband.
Therefore I think the only thing that you can do hear is to ask yourself is talking to her over the internet enough for you, if it isnt then I think that the best thing you can do is call it quits and accept that she never did want to have anything more with you. Sorry its not what you want to hear, but sometimes the truth isnt. I guess you just need to accept that she has her life and doesnt want to risk losing anything. For all you know she could probably have three or four guys just like you who she chats to over the internet. Dont let yourself fall in to a trap where you expect more than what she is offering. Goodluck.
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