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writes:It's been one year now and I still think of him. I tried to keep myself busy most of the time; I have read a lot how to get rid of infatuation( if you call this infatuation) and I understand it takes time to heal. It is less painful and less thought consuming...I left knowing that it was going to be impossible relationship( I don't want to say how it is an almost impossible relationship because it seems a lot of people's reply are biased once they know the reason) i am confused of whether it was a deep attraction or something else. But why did we seem so connected since day 1? The deep look in the eyes, the pause as if we were the only people in the room, the sudden attraction and above all, why did my heart ached when once he did not smile at me? I was upset, cried and angry at the same time. He also felt the same whenever I did not respond to his smile or avoiding him, he used to chase me up and stared at me. At this time, it was all unconscious and innocent. But why feeling the pain in my chest if it is simply an infatuation or attraction??? Just to add, I tried my best against my heart not to initiate things up,as I knew it was going to be an almost impossible relationship and it ended up quite abrupt without both us confessing. The only thing that was given to me was a card expressing how much he would really miss me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2015): You are putting yourself into a romantic novel situation and i wouldnt put too much emphasis on this fizzled out thing unless you need a lot of consolatory attention. Think of a novel where the woman got up and did some kick ass thing with her life instead of pining and crying over looks and non looks. There are many people out there in the real world, some of whom would like to know you better i suspect.Limit your pining hours and adopt a new way of thinking.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (17 July 2015):
 Follow your heart. What's the Mark Twain quote about regretting things you didn't do, more than things you did?
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