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One sided sex life

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Question - (9 August 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *igMac92 writes:

Okay last time i think i was alittle unclear so lets see if i can clear up some of the confusion. Me and my girl started have sex about a week ago. Now we are both virgins so we have to take it slow when it comes to actually having sex because i end up hurting her, which i understand completely. Now im getting a little frustrated because im lasting way to long so she has to stop me before i cum. But its not just that, every time we get into it i eat her out until she cums. On the other hand shes only given blown me till i finish once. So now im not trying to say everything needs to be even but its getting to me a little bit. Now i would understand if i was the first guy shes given blow jobs to but i'm not. She's been doing it for sometime but she just doesn't like doing it. With that said i dont want to guilt her into blowing me because i know she doesn't like it. So is there any other way to get her to fill my needs without using the guilt trip?

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (10 August 2011):

Moo's Mum agony auntOh dear Anon suggesting someone should "endure" sex is interesting advice. Obviously the OP is not satisfying his woman if she isn't enjoying the sex. No one should have to "endure" sex to keep someone else happy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011):

If she doesn't like blowjobs then she should try and endure with you till you cum (sexually)

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A female reader, RedAthena United States +, writes (9 August 2011):

RedAthena agony auntThe last time you posted this question,which I think you were clear on, you were suggested to talk to her about what you would like too.

Have you talked to her?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2011):

Maybe you didn't wash "him" properly?

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (9 August 2011):

Moo's Mum agony auntCan you two talk about this together. The best sex life is one you can articulate. Maybe she doesn't actually like you making her cum that way, maybe she wants something else. You need to talk about what you both like and dislike and want to try and you both need to respect each other's boundaires. If one of you say you don't like something then don't go there.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2011):

Hand jobs?

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