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writes:dudes, can you help?A while ago i became close to a girl, and asked her out. she wasn't sure, and we drifted apart, and maybe things are a little awkward between us now.now, i have very mixed feelings over what to do. somedays i really feel for her and feel i should ask her out again and risk it all, others i don't feel anything for her and feel i should let things be.my question isn't what to do, but how to sort out my feelings? how i do decide which of the two if how my heart really feels? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): i have had the same problem but you know what i relaized you cant always do what you feel for that second becuase emotions are not reliable, they constantly change as you found out, somtimes you have to do what you know is best.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 May 2007):
 If there is ANY doubt in your heart it's likely that you don't feel as much as you think. Turn your thoughts into actions... if you were to date this girl on days when you felt for her and blank her on days when you didn't that would ultimately hurt her and make her feel bad about herself. I believe that when you really like someone you'll do anything to keep them from feeling bad about themselves so my instinct would be to push this girl out of your mind and find someone you feel into every day.
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