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Once bitten, twice shy?

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Question - (10 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

if u had a one night stand with someone that wasnt very good in bed, would u give them another chance?

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (11 June 2007):

kenny agony auntIt depends on the circumstances, it may have not been very good because he was under the influence of alcohol maybe.

Maybe he had never had a one night stand before and was nervous.

What ever the reason i would be inclined to give them another chance.

Good luck x

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A female reader, kellyO United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2007):

kellyO agony auntIt depends. if the person is willing to learn what pleases me. You could try guiding him during love making if u dont want to hurt his feeling but telling him. Try taking his hand and guiding him on and whispering into his ears what u want.

Goodluck.

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A female reader, CharlieHorse United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2007):

It depends on how much I liked him, on just HOW bad he was in bed, and how horny and desperate I got LOL!

Seriously, if he was THAT bad then why would you want to sleep with him again?

If it is because he is a nice guy and you think maybe he might develop into something other than a one night stand, then it may be worth trying to educate him.... it is difficult to say, without you going into more detail, whether he is "trainable" enough to make it worth the effort....

Personally, unless he is a REALLY lovely guy and you think that he is worth the effort, I would be trying to find someone who you are more compatible with in bed. I tend to think that although compatibility can be worked on, it is usually either there or it's not.

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