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writes: Well guys/girls, I have a problem and I really dont know what to do... this is the story...I was with this girl, Valerie, for about 9 months. At the time, we felt really strong for each other. We ended up doing something really stupid, we had sex. Her mom found out and forbade us to talk. We talked anyways through notes and such that we had friends bring to each other secretly. About 2 weeks later, her mom found out about that also and stopped that. We then stopped talking, thinking it was for the best to let things calm down. A year later, on the exact day, I called her mom to apologize for everything. Within the time of then and now, I have spoken to Valerie a few times and she said she had feelings for me still but didn't think it would work, cuz of her mother. Now I have run into her again and spoke with her mom. She says she has no problems with me now, but Valerie said she doesn't want to see me. How can I get her to talk to me? How can I get her to tell me her true feelings? Reply to this Question
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reader, ghettofab6204 +, writes (3 June 2006):
 its funni he wants to talk to his old girlfriend again but mad cuz she dont want too but he doesnt mention that he's been wit me for 2 yrs june 2, funni huh
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (27 May 2006):
 Sorry things didnt work out. But it now seems that V has moved on and was trying to let you down gently by saying that it wouldnt be a good idea because of her mum. Try not to dwell on this too much and try and put it behind you. Try and involve yourself in other things and get out there in the wide world, there maybe someone just around the corner waiting to meet you!
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reader, scoutZor +, writes (27 May 2006):
scoutZor is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHer mom object after the beginning becasue she found out we had sex, she was very upset since her daughter was a virgin.. But i found out today, that Valerie is sayin she thinks it would be inappropriate since she is engaged =((( so i guess she has feelings and doesnt want to ruin things with her fiance... i dont know..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): ok well my situation wasent that bad but.........my bf's mom kept telling him jsut to treat me as a friend, and not to hold my hand, etc. and it ended up ruining our relationship......but we still stayed friends.....we did end up going out again a few weeks later and its been sooo much better..........
in your case.......just try to be friends with her again! maybe she will start to like you again......but even if she doesent.......you will still have her friendship!
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reader, Troubled101 +, writes (25 May 2006):
 i would go over there with her mothers permission and plead with her. if you still have feelings then you should act on them. Give it your best shot and if she says no then it wasnt meant to be in the first place. I hope this was helpful
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reader, ShortandSweet? +, writes (25 May 2006):
 Why is Mom objecting? Stating your age in your question might help put things into proportion . xxx
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