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Not sure if I want to have a boyfriend in my life...is this normal?

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Question - (8 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2007)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi! I was told to keep my question short, so I'll write in point form.

-I'm 19, attractive (at least I like to believe so), sometimes shy

-the problem: I've never had a boyfriend

-I actually dated 2 guys, one for 2 months, and the other one for...1 week

-the problem: although I was attracted to both before they asked me out, after that, I didn't feel the same, so I broke up with them

-now, I'm not sure I want to have a boyfriend anymore

-what's wrong with me?

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A female reader, xx-miss-cupid-xx United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2007):

xx-miss-cupid-xx agony auntHey x

There is nothing wrong with you. If anything, there's something very right about you, because you know that you can live life without a man!

One day the right one may come along, but being single is great too. Flirt with people, find out what you like and want.

I too admire you because I used to think I needed a boyfriend to complete my life. Now I'm OK either way.

Remember to always follow your heart and never let any of your friends inflence you into choosing a guy.

Good luck!

Cara -x-

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (8 January 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou are just fine. You just simply have not found the right guy yet and aren't settling for less. Just relax and have fun being single while you can! You go girl!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007):

There is nothing wrong with you at all. You are getting to an age when you are discovering yourself, what you like and don't like. That is good. You are adult enough to realise that your life will function with or without a bf!! I do admire you for that because some people go through life thinking that they have to have a bf or gf to be able survive. Good on you! Go with how you feel and not what you may think other people expect of you. You will meet someone if and when you are ready.

have a great life.

Take care

xx

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