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Not sure if he just wants me for sex or rebound?

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Question - (5 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi! i'm 15 and there is a lad i really like, he keeps asking me to sleep over his, but he said he wants to have sex with me. he says he is a virign, and so am i. but we are both even going out together. i asked him out and he reply, 'can u stay over monday night?' i put answer my question plz and he just put 'we will c on monday' i just dont know if he just wants me for sex or a reobund girl as he has just broken up with his gf. is he just playing me or not? cos he says he likes me... (i'm not gonna have sex with him by the way)

advice please?

x x x

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A female reader, sillzsarah United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2007):

sillzsarah agony auntlook hunny,

all guys at that age are thinking about sex....

its not normal if they dont!

there is to parts of this story...

1. might be that yes he is playing you because he feels like he is lonely because hes just broke up with his gf so on that reason i think he was lying about being a virgin so you should dump him!!

then there is the second side. were most young boys that age are finding out about there body and want to experiment there is scientific proof that boys that age have thoughts about what its like and hes been thinking about it for along time thats proberbly why he broke up with his gf because she wernt ready for it or she diddnt feel the same way...

hope i helped hun :-)

mail me if u want more help :-D ??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007):

All young boys or hell guys in general are ALWAYS thinking about sex, at 15 years old you should not be thinking about having sex. your two young to deal with responsibilites if something were to happen. im only 19 years old and have been with one person and im still dating him today and truly feel like i will marry him some day. even tho i love him truly i still wish i had waited because now i think about when we get married whats the exciting part on your honey moon of course it will be great but whats new? if a young boy wants you to stay with him alone, of course thats what he is looking for. i cant understand coming over and hangin out, but staying the night there will be temptation and if you give into the temptation you WILL regret it later. so make smart choices.

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