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Not sure how to get out and date again-I'm pretty rusty! Will I ever find someone? Any thoughts?

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Question - (12 January 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2007)
A female Ireland, anonymous writes:

ok i dunno if ya can really advise me but here goes.

i havent been with anyone in a really long time. due to a bad relationship were we stopped having sex etc.

now were broken up about 4 months.

im really genuinely worried il never be with anyone again. im only 23.now im not looking for a serious relationship.

like i act confident and i am in someways with friends etc and i believe u should act it even if u dont feel it.

but im really shy romantically i talk to people all the time im very friendly but i cant flirt or anything.

im just so nervous about it all, guys dont chat me up or anything.

its just been so long since ive even been kissed.

im starting to feel like im just not fanciable that no one would be sexually attracted to me.

i know im not horrible looking or anything and i like my personality as do all the friends i make.

other people i know who have broken up around the same time or after seem to be straight back out there new boyfriends/girlfriends or just little flings a kiss here and there etc.

ive done nothing i know i shouldnt need a guy to make me feel attractive but its just been so long over a year.. i dunno what to do feel like ive completely lost my sexuality.

does anyone have any advice on how to get through this?

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A female reader, heartxbrokenxgurl United States +, writes (13 January 2007):

heartxbrokenxgurl agony aunthey u need to look for that perfect someone n if u find him get to kno him then when u guys get to kno each other it could become an relationship just dont go to fast when u do then u might find out u guys have nothing in common which is sometimes good cuz then u hae more to talk bout but u at least want some things in common just take it slow n easy to find that perfect someone

hopes this help we can talk anytime

?date master jenna /heartxbrokenxgurl

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