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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I have had a few sexual partners but have had a certain problem with all of them, i don't feel comfortable recieving oral sex. Its mainly just worry that i will look/smell horrible. I do wash down there, but not overly, nor do i use freshness products. I think my look and smell is normal but i still cant get over the thought "oh god what if he thinks its gross". Its always been an awkward subject because they always think it means i dont fany them etc. If i were to give myself advice i'd say 'tell them thats the reason, they'll probably reassure you' but if i say 'im worried i look/smell funny' then i'll worry even more thinking *oh great, now i've highlighted it he'll be thinking about it/noticing even more than he would have anyway!* So with all these thoughts going on at the same time, the rare times ive ever accepted oral sex, i've never been able to enjoy the feeling for not being able to relax...Grr!
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