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anonymous
writes: I'm 22yrs plus while my guy is 25yrs plus we have been dating gettin to 4yrs now despite our religion differences,we both love eachother ,he pays me visit,he introduce me to his friends as his wife to be but now everything change suddenly.each time i pay him visit now he is always desperate to kiss and touch my boobs without wanting to know how i feel,the next time i pay him visit was even worst he wanted to do the same and even want to have sex.wen i notice all of this i always visit him once a while the next time i pay him visit again he kiss me on the cheeks and wanted to kiss me on the lips i refused,.so he carried me and lie me down on his bed and start to romance my boobs i told him this not the right time for this he refuse he still continue and started questionin how many years have we started dating what does he mean by that,when i notice he wanted to lie on me and remove my undies i refuse and ask me reasons i explain to him but what pains is that he didnt listen to me at the first place until he is satisfied with the romance so he stop when he notice i'm unhappy he go on his knee to apologise so i left so it took time to visit him again when he sees me on the way he wisper to my ear because his friend his beside us,that is it what happen last time makes you not to visit as you use to, i said yes.the next time again i pay him visit he is quiet he doesnt want to talk to me he is just playing game with his fone so to get his attention i decided to collect his fone then he comes closer and started to kissing me on the cheek he insist we should kiss his lips i refused so last week i went to his house it was opened and i flashed him because i don't have airtime on my fone wen he respond he told me he has relocate to another place witout lettin me know.he said he mention the new place to me on the fone and promise to see me i don't know what he mean by that,he doesnt call me so i don't call him either and i don't want to delete him from my facebook friend and his contant number, when ever he is online now when i try to chat with him he is not responding instead he log out does it mean he is angry with me because i refuse to let him have sex,or he thinks i don't love him because he is hurting me i can take it anymore does he love me.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (11 April 2013):
 Hi
After 4 years together I don't think he was after just sex, he wasn't even getting a kiss. He didn't marry you and I assume never asked you or got engaged and 4 years is long enough for him to do that.
I think he has met somebody new, somebody he can have a full relationship with. Or he is dating around.
He has moved house, doesn't take your calls and ignores you on Facebook. I would say it's over between you.
You need a man who respects your personal choices and wants to marry you
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 April 2013):
 hold on guys... they are dating four years... they are both over 21
so it's 4 years and there is not even kissing on the lips!
and you will have sex with him when he marries you... why not get married? if that's not an option then end the relationship.
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reader, raiders +, writes (10 April 2013):
 he only wants sex from you nothing else. It seems like the minute you give it up he will walk away anyways so hold on to your panties and don't give it up unless your ok with being used.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (10 April 2013):
 Like so many guys... this one would be quite content to have $ex with you... but is not "in it" for any more type of interaction or committment....
Drop him... stay away from him.... and see if there isn't a "real" "boyfriend" out there for you... somewhere....
Good luck....
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reader, CMMP +, writes (10 April 2013):
If a guy only wants to romance your boobs when you see him that means he's using you. And now he's playing games with you because he's upset that you won't let him have sex with you.
This guy is all wrong for you. Find someone who's more respectful of your choices.
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