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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,We have a casual relationship lasting for several months. From january we used to talk everyday. He was the one initiating it and he was always very into me. Both of us we know this could never be a "real" relationship but both of us accepting it. Last time i saw him he said: you know i miss you but we should not miss each other that much. I said: i know but i cannot help miss you anyway.From this day he contacted me and last weekend he went on a trip. I texted him wishing him to have fun and i also said that i wanted to see him and even if i shouldn't that i missed him.He never replied. Why is he doing this? If he is not comfortable why he is not ending it straight ? I do not plan to text him again though but i do not know what to do. I really like him but i am afraid i will never heard from him.
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reader, goodbyehello93  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 It was simply a text! The situation should be reversed here. You should be the one having him on the leash and have him pursue you.
Don't create those doubts/'what ifs' in your head at this point. Clearly, theres some miscommunication going on so just sit back and relax
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): I think it depends on the reason it 'can't be a real relationship'.Are either or both of you in other relationships?If so, it could be that he is worried you are getting serious, or he is having second thoughts.It's very hard to answer without more information.The next time you see him, you need to stress that you need proper answers.Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): You both know it could never be a real relationship? Why? Is at least one of you attached? If he isnt ending it,knowing your feelings,all it sounds like by the little you wrote is that when sex becomes scarce for him,then suddenly you may find yourself his flavour of the week. Unless you go into further detail i cant think of any other reason.
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