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I've got no pubic hair... Now everyone knows!

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Question - (14 January 2005) 50 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2010)
A , anonymous writes:

i am 13 and have no pubic hair at all its so embarrising and i dont want to tell or talk to anyone about it. please help me as my ex boyfriend found this out and has spread it all round my school, people took the mick out of me for a week i got so fed up that i havent been to school for a whole week and never want to go back to school. please help is there anything i can do to grow any quick?

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A male reader, worriedtom United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2010):

hi i understand why your worried i am 14 and have not yet started puberty and dont no what to do i told my mum and dad buy they said dont worry but all my mates have started puberty so i am really embaresed could someone help me please and could you recomend any product to quicken up the process thank you

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010):

dont worry people start puberty at different times

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010):

hi one of the best ways to grow pubic hair is to consume more protien due to the fact that protien makes hair grow faster

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010):

Proteíns tendrá to make it grow

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010):

I grew my first pubic hair when I was just 10 but it was extremely embarrassing because all my other friends didn't have any. I don't think you need to worry about when you grow pubic hairs- everyone gets them eventually at their own rate. Besides- you probably have a massive bush now, considering this post is over five years old!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010):

Im 11 turning 12 ini december. I Have pubic hair but its not seeable. Well Everyone has pubic hair, you probally just cant see it.Dont Let any of those JERKS at ur school tell you otherwise. Focus On doing your work and getting through life.~Dont Let It Bother You~

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010):

im 14 and have just sprouted my first pube haha . my friends laugh at me even tho they dont no if i do or not its just because i dont get them out when they all are. now ive started i realise that its just silly :)

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A male reader, KiNG BRaNN zZ United Kingdom +, writes (24 June 2010):

well if i was u i would be laughing at them because im a boy 16 years old and if i had a girlfriend u had a big bush of pubes i wouldnt like it go i nto skwl and say i shave or summin just laugh at the girls that laugh at u because i would rather be with someone who has no pubes than someone that had loads and made it look like bigfoot or summin just ignore them serious it nothing to be embarressed about.........hope this helps ! ! ! !

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

It's okay not to have pubic hair at 13. It's even better as your a girl! Men don't want to look at a hairy vagina. That's very good that you don't have hair down there.

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A male reader, xQsxDarKnezZ United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2010):

if you dont have any pubic hair dont worry about it i didnt have to start with.and dont worry about what everybody thinks your time will come when you are ready!

its not your fault

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008):

Hey;

All I can say is that most guys dont like pubic hair on a girl and most girls shave it anyway. A thick hairy bush is lame nowdays. AND so guess what, I am a guy and I am 17 and I don't have any either and at first I was embarassed and now I dont care and no one else cares either. My girlfriend has a nice bush but she shaved it before she met me and when we are both naked, we look the same (no hair) so its all good. I don't think I will get any either. That is rare but I dont care. You are a girl and its TOTALLY cool not to have any.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008):

hey this may sound kinda weird but i dont hav many pubes but i have sum on my right side. as for the bullying, just ignore them and they will stop

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008):

Just ignore what they say. People grow faster.

I am 13 and 100 pounds and i have none either, i get made fun of a lot

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008):

Tell evryone he's got a small pecker his mouth will suprisingly shut. As for not going to school you should go into school with your head held high and shrug off any nasty comments.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008):

The "in " thing to do now is wax it completely off. You are very lucky to not have any pubes. You will make some guy very happy one day!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008):

im 21 i have a little pinner and no pubes my voice is higher pitched than my 13 year old brothers but i dont care!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008):

I am 13 i have some pubes and startng to get sweaty and smell but i am devolping slowly and btw, Boys don't like Hairy Girls usually, He's Probly gay.don't worry

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007):

hey kid enjoy it now please i mean go skinny dipping get naked outside get good tan show everyone your smooth body its concidered the best looking beauty in male body is right before puberty when body so smooth and clean looking because when the hair starts its like a diesese that never stops and makes you have smells and itch all over and it causes sweat i find it disgusting and i spend 8 hours a week shaving/plucking/burning/pulling/waxing ect ect all them out to look like your body does and its all back in 2 days makes me wish i was your age again PS get a camera and take some photos of your smooth naked self not to show or give anyone just to have for in the future you can look back at what your wonderfull innocent body used to look like i wish to god i would of done that got a girlfriend? lol when i was your age i did and i had sex with her i was scared to death to let her see my boy smooth body i thought she was expecting to see a huge "you know" and loads of hair but she was totally amazed at what she saw and you dont have to worry about pregnancy if you didnt have puberty yet i didnt get pubes till i was 15 and then i removed them and been doing so for 20 years lol hope you got a foreskin dont let them take that away or youl never have real pleasure in bed with a woman it reduces pleasure by 65% well good luck and let them see it they will laff but really be jelous and go home shave prolly lmao

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007):

if u have peach fuzz u can shave it. normally when hair is shaved it grows back faster

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007):

i had pubic hair and i hated it because it would be a hassle when ever i take a shower and get all fuzzy and messy i just shaved i today and im 15 im content and im happy =D

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007):

why do you want pubes for anyway? its annoying. i'm a guy and i was so self conscious when i first started getting it at 12 (im 23 now). so if you're ashamed of not having it, the ones who already do probably feel the same. let me tell you when you get older, you'll probably prefer not having it at all for varying reasons. for one, its cleaner to be bare down there but you'll have to maintain it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007):

hi i am 14, alomst 15 and have little pubic hair only alittle on both side of my d*** and when my hockey team showers everyone has a forest except me if i shave down there will it make it grow

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007):

just tell everyone you had that bigger bush you had to shave it

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007):

i was younger and all my friends kept asking me do you have any hair down there. so i leid ovo i was only like 12 then on of my mates who usually boasted about it got keggedn he had a small penis and no hair.so don't worry it took a while till mine started and i have'nt even got a full bush yet so don't complain.because if a boy really loves you he will not give a shit about your hair down there on anywhere else so just be confident in yourself okay

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

hi im 13 and i still dont have pubes ANYWHERE and my penis is still very small and i want them to grow now and i jackoff but nothing happens and i want to have sperm cuz all my other friends do and i dont

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007):

i sort of remember not having pubes...now that i think about it, i wanted them too!

:)

i just told everyone i shaved!

worked for me...

try it out.

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A female reader, -Zizu- Second Acc  +, writes (3 September 2007):

this was posted back in 2005 lol

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007):

hey,

there is no way of growing pubes quick, you will just have to wait until they come, but anyway why should you be embrasted about not having any pubes. in a couple years time when you reach the age of about 15 maybe 16, boys will be wanting you to shave your pubic area. Like i have been doing for the past 3 years for boys, they love it, but some are just less inmuture because they think that you arnt a person because you have no pubes. so chill out and dont worry about it because your time will come

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007):

haha whan you get them you wont want them and you will end up shaving them anyway to make them look good so you are better off anyway

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007):

You're still only very young - you'll mature in time and your ex is probably saying nasty things about you becouse he still likes you! Please dont let any other lads take advantage of you and dont worry about having no pubes as yet - when you finally get them you'll wish you never had to cope with it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007):

tell everyone that he has a little 3 inch penis. Then he will shut his mouth.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007):

im 17 now and just started to look my age. I always thought I was a late bloomer.But trust me you probably have started puberty, and its just a slower process.When I started puberty, everything was just slow, happens to a lot of people. You just cant see the signs yet but you probably have started.It doesnt happen in a day. I still dont have hardly any armpit hair and I dont know why but who cares.I gotta big ****!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007):

Im male, 14 1/2 and am just beginging to get hair. There is onyl a little bit on either side above but not directly above. my mates all take the mick, because they no i dont have many and theres are like forest, so i just find something else i have 'more of' than them and tease them with that.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007):

I have np pubes at 16 n my penis is quite big so does this mena i will have a big dick when i have hit pubery n is that bad 4 a girl

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2007):

omg your 13 and worrying about this, your just a little girl, and "somehow" your ex found out...you little hor what did he do finger you! your just a fuckn kid, i should come to your house a spank your little sluty ass. Its a good thing your being made fun of in school your haveing sex at 13 you cock eating piece of shit!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007):

I'm 14 and am currently beginning to grow pubic hair, yet I have no armpit hair, my voice hasn't broken or anything. I get teased about it every day. It's none of their business if you have no pubes anyway.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007):

Hello, i am 14 years old and i as well have no pubic hair, i read this column because i felt the same way, alot of my friends have pubic hair and people keep on reassuring me that i will get some soon, which is the right answer, i always get nervous and keep on looking on the internet if there are "pubeless diseases" or something that makes me realize i do have a disease, but theres nothing, every single person does develop at their own speed, you may not even get some for 2-3 years, but its cool, people like it better anyways, enjoy it while you can =), i like to tell myself the same =p

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006):

hey,

dont worry about it, people have pubity at all different times, it will appear some time,

remember dont worry about it!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2006):

Don't let this get to you. Why?

Because in a few years time when you are sexually active, guys will be asking you to shave your public hair off.

And if you don't - some will treat you in the way that these guys are doing now.

The best thing you can do is be confident in who you are.

Don't let anyone upset you, because they are not worth it. I suspect, those people who are bullying you probably don't have pubic hair either - or they are insecure about their bodies in some other way. Teenage boys are under A LOT of pressure to fit in to a certain type of role and unfortunately, as you can see in your ex-boyfriend, he is doing it at the expense of your feelings.

People who are content or happy with who they are rarely, if ever, feel the need to critisice someone else. You need to concentrate on getting to know and being friends with these kind of people. People who don't get involved in stupid childish bullying behaviour. Once you can establish friends like that the bullies won't bother you so much.

Stay strong, OK? School life is over before you know it and you will never, ever have to see those people again. You will always encounter bullys in life. You just have to learn to become stronger than they are, so that they have to go and find someone weaker to bully.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2006):

Everyone develops at different rates. I didn't start growing pubic hair until I was 14. Yes I got the Micky taken out of me but then I didn't have to worry about my bikini line until I was nearly 16

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2006):

Hey there...don't let it get to you...like some of the other guys said no dude likes a hairy girl...so be proud of it...if your developed in....other ways then that means your a woman. Be happy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2006):

my friend has it and she is 1 year younger im 11 ,trust me i deal with it all the time and all I do is if my friend is takin the mick i just tell her bigest secret to everyone

good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2006):

im 14 male no pubes

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2006):

I Personnally thing that girls look better without any hair down there, alot of girls shave down there, so if anyone gives you a hard time about it just say its because you shaved it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2006):

u might just start late

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A female reader, kellyO United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2006):

kellyO agony auntDont worry about it. it will grow with time. Am sure there are alot of 13 years old in your school who havent gotten any too even if they dont say.Some grown ups dont even keep their and prefer a shave.

By thinking of growing some it probably wont help since i know u will be too shy to show to alot of people to contradict what he is saying.

I dont think u should let this bother u. You ex-boyfriend is obviously too immature and needs a serious spanking!!! He is trying to get u to down becos u dont want him no more.If u indeed act down and dont go to school u will prove to him that he has won. Try act as if u arent bother about it.

If people ask u about it tell them ur ex-boyfriend has gone cuckoo becos u told him u are no longer interested.

All the best dearie.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2006):

dont worry you will grow some natrually its just your what is known as a late bloomer

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2005):

Different people hit puberty at different times so don't worry about it. And one thing that you will find...once you get into high school a lot of girls shave it all off anyway. It's like when you start shaving your legs it's "cool" at first but you hate it after a while same thing when you get hair down there. Your excited because you're a "woman" but you hate it later.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2005):

I'll put money that at least half the girls that are makin fun of you, don't have any hair down there either. If it makes that big a deal, just say "well i would have hair but i think it's gross so i shave." Besides, say you were able to grow a bunch of hair down there real fast; what would you do? Walk down the hall at school with your pants down?:)

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A female reader, Bev Conolly Australia +, writes (15 January 2005):

Bev Conolly agony auntHi there,

Short answer is: No, there isn't. Nothing grows hair on your head, groin or anywhere else. It will grow there when it's ready to, and that will be soon. Believe me.

The longer answer is: Why are you letting it get to you? They can only tease you about not just this, but anything, if you respond to the teasing. If you don't respond - particularly if you make a *point* of not responding - the teasing will shift to someone else who'll react. Your staying away from school only makes it plain that you're really bothered by what they're saying, which will encourage them to keep it up. Go back to class, say nothing, look them straight in the eye and change the subject, and the comments will evaporate into nothing, and they'll feel like idiots. It's the best "revenge", seriously.

Everyone develops at their own pace and being 13 and hairless is about as common as being 13 and having pubic hair. Do you think you're the only one at your school in this situation? I can promise you, with my hand over my heart: You are not. The ones who are making the comments are probably hairless too; they're desperately pointing the finger, hoping no one finds out about their "secret". And the biggest secret of all is, that nobody cares! So you have pubic hair... or you don't. What difference does it make as to whether you're a good friend, or a A-grade student, or a gifted musician, or graceful dancer? Who cares?

Your ex-boyfriend has shown what a cloddish, nasty little brute he is by making this an issue with your classmates, so in your shoes I would resolve to ignore it ("Wow. Are you still on about that? That's so last week!"), or respond by making it a bigger joke ("What? You mean you've never had a Brazilian?" You don't know what you're missing!")

This is a really temporary issue and it will only last as long as you let it, so adopt a world-weary sigh and simple don't show that it bothers you; that's the quickest way to make it go away.

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