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No emotional bond in my marriage and my in laws hate me. Any advice?

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Question - (24 November 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *hiny writes:

i have been married for 3 yrs with 12 month old baby girl, my inlaws hates me and my husband is not standing for me,he's always on the side of his family whenever we traveled to the family house,the last time we traveled i was humiliated, rejected and dejected. things were like that when i was pregnant but i thought that he will change after seeing his first baby, but NO the whole thing is geting worse. he behaves as if we(my baby and i) illitate him. is this what marriage is all about? the truth is that i dont love him i married him out of frustration(pls dont judge me) and i found out that he doesn't love me either,there is no emotional attachememt, we are not compartible at all. i'm a graduate in my late 20's looking for a job, immediatly i find one i will walk away and move on with my life,i have made up my mind or what do you think?

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A female reader, chiny United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2011):

chiny is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you all for your advice,i really appreciate. love you all.

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A female reader, Tbosse South Africa +, writes (25 November 2011):

Tbosse agony auntYou deserve love and happiness. move on and goodluck!

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2011):

Starlights agony auntMarriage should be ultimately be a loving bond, of course challenges are normal in any marriage.

You say your husband doesnt love you.

If neither of you love each other and cant work things out AFTER talking about it, it time to move on for your own happiness and for the sake of your baby.

I hope this helps!

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A female reader, moon river  United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2011):

moon river  agony auntyou must know exactly what you need to do but something is holding you back from admitting it from yourself,

you need to move on you deserve true love

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2011):

Yep. Marriage should be about love and happiness. Not abuse and bull crap.

Move on!

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (24 November 2011):

natasia agony auntYes, move on, move on. Get away. This is nonsense. Life is too short. Find someone you love.

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