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No affection from my husband. I am ready to tell him to take a long walk on a short pier...

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Question - (17 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2008)
A female United States age , *ustbeugly writes:

I am so frustrated and angry. My husband of 20 years will only give me a peck on the cheek. I try to kiss him and he pulls away. I flirt with him and it is like I do not exist. I tried to dress up for him and I may as well have been a lump of clothing on the floor. I don't exist. When I say anything to him, he just says he is tired or maybe another time. I am so mad I am ready to tell him to take a long walk on a short pier and I will go find myself a real man who can show real affection.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

Is this something new or has he always been like this? If he has been like this for 20 years then I am surprised that you have stayed with him for so long. If this is something new then you and he need to discover what has changed. Has his job become much more stressful? Do you have new financial problems? Does he show any other sighs like ED and depression? Has he also lost interest in hobbies? You need to look to more things and we need more information to help you.

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A female reader, tammye17 United States +, writes (17 June 2008):

tammye17 agony auntok....have you talked to him about how you feel....talk to him firsr and see where this takes you...how does he feel about you? why is he acting like this? and if this does not solve the issue then is your choice...but remember marriage is not something you can just walk out off:)try to work things out from your part.

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