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writes: I have been married for eight years.I have three kids.For the last two years I don't feel like having sex often.My husband is a wonderful man and he means the world to me.It makes me feel bad when he tells me why I'm not in the mood like I was before.I used to love having sex every day.I just don't know what happened I'm with the my kids the whole day.Maybe its stress I don't know please give me some advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): ii have the same problem but we just learn to live with it and he does mind just when ii am in the mood we have sex xx
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reader, Tasty  +, writes (10 July 2010):
go to the doctors and see if he could maybey prescribe some drugs to help get you going or maybey even try watching porn or a romantic night with your man without the kids xx
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reader, Odds  +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Krunk is correct. Part of the reason your husband agreed to marriage was the belief that he would be having lots of sex. He would be entirely justified in leaving if he was not getting any. After all, it's just as hard for him to go without when you're not in the mood as it is to make yourself do it anyway. Why should he be the only one to compromise?
Think about him sexually early in the day. Then, go along with him when he makes a move - usually, once things get going, you'll find that you actually are in the mood.
Go out somewhere, have a special night. Leave the kids with a babysitter and have the empty house waiting for you when you get back from dancing or whatever you decide to do.
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reader, krunkqueen  +, writes (10 July 2010):
no matter how tired you are or whatever.. you need to please your man and make him happy or he will find it somewheres else..
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