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writes:im 14 and ill be in high school by the end of august, and im very nervous, not because of grades, not because of bullies, but because of dating. ive had two girlfriends. the first one dumped me after a week for someone else. my next girlfriend was wonderful, i met her through a friend and we just hit it off, we would relax at a park and lay against a tree, id hold her, then she'd bury her head into my chest and we'd just relax together. but then she dumped me and i didnt have the energy to figure out why, so i just went home. i somehow got these girls to like me out of pure luck, which is why im extremely worried about what the hell im going to do when im in high school, im a bit geeky looking even though im not that way once people get to know me, but i am a bit awkward. which is why i could really use some advice on how to impress the girls in my school and also how to be a good boyfriend. Reply to this Question
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (16 July 2010):
 Do yourself one massive favour!!!
Grow up mentally. Find wiisdom, hunt it down, learn about who you are first, and girls after.
Listen to women...yes WOMEN not girls. Learn what women look for in a man from older women, and apply them to your life.
Girls have been taught how to live since they were kids. We men get toy guns, cars, planes, and tools. No one ever sits us down and tell us about women, so we learn the hard way.
Do not get wisdom from your friends your age, they have nothing to tell other than the negative ways of women, and how they think you should treat them.
Some girls you will lose, but learn from it, and those you win...learn from it. The more you know you, the easier it is to adapt to the girl you are with.
That saying...be like water and take the shape of whatever your are in...holds a lot of truth. Ice breaks, water doesn't.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 July 2010):
I don't think the problem is you. I think the problem is that at your age, you'll find that very few relationships will work out. Girls will all still be working out who they are, and will go from one boyfriend to another. So at the moment, don't worry so much about relationships. If you're worried that you're a bit awkward, then talk to girls who you don't fancy, as you'll find it easier to speak to them. But I don't think you're the problem at the moment. I think it's to do with your age and the fact that everyone around you will be working out who they are.
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reader, missontua +, writes (16 July 2010):
 it doesn't surprise me at all that you're nervous about going to highschool and girls is the main reason why. because trust me, every other guy you know feels exactly the same way. you know those guys, the 'popular' or 'cool' guys, they feel the same way too, but hide behind their confidence. you say that you want to know how to impress girls and how to be a good boyfriend, but from everything you've told me, it seems like you know that already. you're only 14 years old, some guys and girls don't have their first relationship until years later, so count yourself lucky. highschool is tough, but when you go there, just remember to be yourself and be warm and friendly to people you meet. that's the best way to impress people.
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reader, cheerhotie10 +, writes (16 July 2010):
You shouldnt b nervous highshcool is the world in a building ive had a bf and the only thing that changed was my grades a B 2 an F so dont worry about it until u find the right1 PEAYCE!
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