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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I dated this girl for about 2 months until she said she wanted to break up with me. I was so depressed I didnt really know how to handle it so I called her a B**** which I apologized for. Bad move on my part but even know we have been apart for 3 months but I still think and dream about her. It's like a strong love I have for this girl and I have some of my friends talking to her about getting back with me. I want to be with her more than anything in the world. Iv'e tried very hard to get over her as well but all I really want is to be with her. I would really appreciate any help I can get. What should I do?
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reader, jabey  +, writes (4 February 2007):
give it one last try and see if she wants you back. If the answer is no, then time to be very brave and strong. There must be things in life you really enjoy doing. Well keep doing them, hang out with your mates the ones that are fun and positive, keep really busy. Listen to good music, read a good book , go to the movies, do lots of exercise. Try and meet some new people, is there any think you would like to learn, a new hobby.
There is no denying its really hard to get over someone. But look at yourself, look at all your positive attributes, all your qualities, feel good about yourself. Get up and choose to be happy, we all have that choice.
the more you go out the more people you meet, the more you learn the stronger you will feel. And remember there are thousands of girls out there that are lovely and have a lot to offer you we are not destined to only ever have one person we love.
And i tell you if she sees you happy and moving on and full of life and strensth then you never know in time she may be begging for you to come back, as you will be a bloody good catch!!!
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reader, cd206 +, writes (4 February 2007):
 You can ask her and see if she's changed her mind but if she hasn't it's just something you have to accept. Unfortunately the person who wants out of the relationship always gets their own way, however much the other person wants to carry on.
CD
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