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writes:Having trouble understanding men.When I was a kid growing up. Guys would ask me out as a joke. It stayed with me for years.A couple of years ago I hung out with a guy for two long years which had a lot of ups and downs (mostly downs). At the end of it I was really starting to fall for him. When he told me how he really felt. He was embressed to be seen with me, even by strangers. I'm digusting the sight of me would want to me him throw up. It was insane because he was the one all the time that would ask me to hang out (never in public).Finally all I ever get are guys that tell me that they are interested then nothing. It makes completely no sense they come up to me and talk get my number. Seem like they are interested then nothing. If anything this kills my self esteem the worst. I could understand if it was one or two guys but its all of them. If your not interested why not leave me a lone in the first place? Why do men have the urge to this for?
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reader, Iroh  +, writes (10 July 2010):
Not all of us are the same but some are really stupid. I have a cousin which I wish I hadn't. He is as stupid as hell when It comes to understanding what people will feel when he treats them as that.
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reader, Odds +, writes (10 July 2010):
 This is the male equivalent of giving out your phone number and then never returning calls. It's a way of making you leave them alone, but still getting the attention they crave. Additionally, most guys don't have the heart to just walk away without acting a little interested.Honestly assess how attractive you are. These guys may be out of your league - as much as I hate the idea of "leagues". Or, you may be out of theirs, and so they don't bother to try.Either way, you may have to take matters into your own hands. Ask some guys out yourself, meet people through friends. Be willing to make the first move.
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