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writes:hey im meeting up with a girl i quite like soon, what topics of comnversation could i bring up? also what would the Dos and Donts be!!!and finally what signs are there that a girl likes you??cheeers Reply to this Question |
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reader, rhythmandblues2  + ♥, writes (27 May 2007):
 It is always great to reveal something personal about yourself, but don't talk about any ex girlfriends if you have any. Topics of conversation are things you are interested in that she might like hearing about, ask her what kind of music or food she likes and just go off from there.
Just keep it light and humurous, and walk her to the door and say good night, if she likes you lean in a little and let her kiss you, otherwise, if you want to see her again, ask her out then for your next date, so have one in mind, otherwise if you say something like I will call you, she will think you had a bad time and won't call her back.
Girls like guys who can make some plans. If you want to ask her out to a movie, start talking about movies and get her agree to one that she wants to go see, assume the sale and then say, Ok, how about thursday or friday? Then she can't say no, she will just have to choose a day, since she already agreed to the movie.
Good Luck and have fun, you will know if she likes you.
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reader, misszulu +, writes (27 May 2007):
 Hello, I think it is really important that you listen to her answers. I think most people like when we genuinely listen to them. When you ask a question, you need to show that you find her answer interesting, simply by listening attentively and not drifting away, thinking about how you are holding your fork or how beautiful she is. Just listen. I agree with people giving the advice of not asking too many questions, but at the same time, she needs to feel that you actually want to know more about her. I find that travelling is usually a good topic of conversation; if none of you has travelled, you can still talk about where you'd like to go and ask her. People differ a lot in the type of places they like and you might actually find out a lot about her this way. But as everyone said, let the conversation flows, she is probably also thinking about what she will be saying. Just relax and have a nice evening. Hope this help a bit,All the best x
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reader, candy00s +, writes (27 May 2007):
 Just be yourself and let the conversation flow. Dont bombard her with questions, may make her feel uncomfortable.
On a first date dont be too full on itll make her run a mile! Hold hands, goodnight kiss!
Hope it goes well.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (27 May 2007):
 Don't do all of the talking. Ask her one or two questions, and look at her when she answers. The only answer that you need to give is a simple: "Uh huh", unless she asks you a direct question. Don't drill her with questions, because she'll feel like you're trying to sell her something. Just let the conversation flow.
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