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writes: I am a divoced lady, I have 2 grown children. I left my husband of 17 years cause I didn't love him anymore and all we did was fight. Each year I would think maybe this year I will love him but it never happen. That was 7 years ago. Every man I dated some were longterm, started out fine then I would get tired or bored with them and leave. Its almost as if I am doomed to never love anyone. I was celibate off and on the last 10 years each time I attempt a relationship it would fail. The problem is I met this man we hit it off and spent 2 weekends together and I found every reason to leave him and date someone which didn't work out cause the man was very pompous. The problem is this man and I recently spent a weekend together and it was like we had never parted. But much more. He never calls unless its after you call and he's a homebody I mean never go out unless its to visit his family. We are both on a dating site. I just don't know what to do when I am not with him I can sense him and I see images of me and him together. Help I am lost!
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reader, CRAZYGIRL +, writes (3 January 2006):
You know what don't stress yourself over this guy or the situation. Just go with the flow. I think the reason your more interested in this one is because he's givin you a lot of space. And the ones you've dated in the past overwhelmed you because you got out of a 17 yr relationship. So every time you got close with a guy after that you'd get tired of em easily like you'd find every little thing wrong. So with this guy I think everything is just fine I wouldn't worry. you should take your time you need it.
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