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My younger sister makes me horny, please help.

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Question - (12 January 2008) 28 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2009)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

hi.

I am 15 and i get really horny when i am around my younger sister who is 13. I really want to see her naked but never have. What should i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009):

me personally would just go jerk off in my room.

i had the same thing with a younger family member

(btw i didn't jerk off about her i jerked off about other stuff)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009):

um.... I'm only 17 but I suggest looking at some soft porn, or artistic nudes. I personally love the female body. I would NOT try anything on your sister. But yeah, if you get too horny, just go jack off... Back to before, you could also print the porn and hide it somewhere, and hide it well. If you try anything to her, she may not devolop properly or have emotional/pyschological problems, and as a brother, you should not want that. Good Luck!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009):

Ok I dont know what that anonymous guy is on about but he is very sick.

Dont go near your sister and I say dont even think about trying to get her naked. She is young but I am sure she would be scared and most likely tell your parents what you do or feel about her.

It is normal I guess to feel this way as everyone says your hormones are all over the place but DO NOT ACT ON THEM!

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A female reader, poisonivylust United States +, writes (25 April 2009):

Sweetie, these feelings you are experiencing are normal to many degrees. Your hormones are racing and bouncing off every wall since you are in puberty. It is okay for you to be horny around girls even if its your sister, it just means you are a normal boy who is interested in the opposite sex. However, it is NOT okay for you to act on these feelings towards your sister. That is wrong and sick. When sexual acts go on between two family members that is called incest. Picture this with me for a moment, you are sitting around with your buddies in college drinking beers and sharing your sex stories/experiences and they ask you who you lost your vcard to or gave you your first bj and all those. You will be the laughing stock and outcast when you tell them your younger sister was your first. So please for your sake and hers, DO NOT act on your feelings for her. You will regret it and she may never trust you again.

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A female reader, Confined United States +, writes (22 February 2009):

Okay dude I'm a 14 close to 15 girl and my brother 16 and if he made a move on me Id be scared as hell not becuz that's so weird on so many levels but becuz he's stronger than me are you stronger than your sister chances are you are so if you do get in a place were you can have sex with her and she says no you might no be able to help your self and think in the futer when you have a kid they will eventually ask you who you lost your virginity to and do you realy want to say your sister I mean think about it that's weird if my bro saw me naked he'd be like fuck I'm scarred for life not jump on me and start humping me omg that just gave me a mental picture

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A female reader, didda123 United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2009):

didda123 agony auntI am sure you are just having normal adolescent feelings you are very inquisitive at that age and even a ride on a bumpy bus can cause an erection!

Your hormones will be all over the place and i know that girls of 13 are very grown up these days i know i couldn't believe some of the girls my boys used to hang out with at that age once they have makeup on they could easily pass for much older!

You are having these feelings for your sister as she is the nearest contact you have with the opposite sex and i am sure anyone would have a sneaky look if the opportunity was there, as long as you don't act on any of your feelings everything will settle down i am sure. Do you have a close friend that you could discuss your feelings in a lighthearted way with then you will realize that you are indeed normal.

Please don't take any notice of anyone who says you are not normal and in particular do not take notice of the 21 year old anonymous writer no wonder he wrote it anonymously!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009):

When I was 21 and my sister was 17 we were goofing around and I chased her into her room and we both sort of fell onto her bed. I fell on top of her and neither of us said a word for about two minutes. I wanted her bad but had all sorts of thoughts rushing through my head. Like what will she think of me later on in life when she has her own kids.. will she trust me with them? Will she think I was taking advantage of her young age?

She broke the awkward silence by making a comment that my arm muscles were big. I knew that had to be an open invitation to start making a move on her. She obviously must have wanted it as bad as I did. I said nothing to her remark and about another minute later she got up from the bed and left her room. She is 30 now and to this say I still wonder what could have happened. I still fantasize about that moment and wonder if maybe she is still hot for me or if she ever really was. I regret not doing anything at that moment. I still masterbate thinking of her and what she looked like at 17 and wish I would have done something. So I say go for it.. make a move on her. Get it out of your system now before it's too late and u end up fantasizing about her for the rest of ur life and wondering what if.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008):

What your feeling isnt really normal! But some guys get like it. ure at that age where u wanna find a girl.. so find one.. JUST NOT URE SISTER!! =]

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A male reader, hdell United States +, writes (3 October 2008):

Talk you parents into letting you look at soft porn on the internet. You will see what mature girls look like. It will satisfy your curiosty and take your mind off your sister. And when you jerk off, you can think of them rather than your sister.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008):

i think u should stop thinking about her when u look at her think of someone u relly hate !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or someone who u think is ugly

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008):

I agree with the others, don't do anything to your sister or try to see her naked, cuz that will only make things worse. Go find some other girl to see naked and you will forget about your sister.

To the anonymous female who posted on May 13 about her hot stepbrother, does your stepbrother know you think he is hot? Also, does he think you are hot?

You do know that because your stepbrother is not your real brother, that you could have sex with him cuz that would not be incest, don't you? Just don't tell anybody so that they won't figure it out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008):

sadly i know how u feel my step-brother is so hott...i hate my mom for marrying his dad!!!!!

well i say dont do anything to ur sister man.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008):

my sister sometimes walks around naked and turns me on. i want to look but tell myself not to. then i jack off and get on my life. i'm also 15. my sister is only 11 but v wise(sexually) for her age. i won't do anything if not only because its wrong but also for fear of someone finding out. get yourself some pussy dude! even if you have to think about your sis when you fucking your chick. whatever, but don't do anything or you will be in shit and everytime she says something to your mom or dad you will be like oh fuck, she is telling them what we did. not cool

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008):

dude come on get a girlfriend or mabe even a blow up toy or somtin just dont say anything to your sister because you will totally freak her out.tell a siciotrist how you feel and you can maybe get some advise from him or her. thats all i have to say so hope you do good *toodles*

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008):

Hey

Me and my sister suggest you talk to someone yourself close to you so they can give advise. But be carefull who you choose.

lots of love

fasion victims

xxxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008):

You're 15 and you can get aroused by thinking of any female very easily at that age, everyone has that and that's perfectly normal. You definitely should exlore your sexuality, but you should do it with girls who are not family, who you like and who like you back. You should NEVER do ANYthing to your sister! That's wrong and disgusting. Just get out of the house and get a gilfriend, or find some porn on the internet or something and in a few years you won't even remember this, thrust me. And never listen to anyone who says there's anything wrong about sex. Good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008):

make a plan so that she "accidently" sees you naked, then because its not fair she's seen you naked make her take of her clothes!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008):

Why do you get horny when you are around your sister? Despite what others are saying here, this is really not normal. She is only 13, so I don't see how you could get horny around her, unless she has a sexy body or something like that. I do agree that you should try to find other girls you aren't related to.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2008):

love-him agony auntBabe, u r at the age where you want to experiment and you want to see bodies, which will turn u on. I know you may see no harm in this situation, but it is potentially dangerous. Dont let yourself fall for your sister in that way, you need to think about other things, if anything think about maybe going out to the cinema with some friends and chat to a few girls, friendly :) anything to get your mind off your sister.. mail me hon :) xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008):

don't worry, you're perfectly normal. You're just in an age where your body is super-charged with hormones and you get aroused by thinking about any woman.

But remember, you can't ever touch your sister. If you get too horny, go to the toilet and jack off, or find some porn on the internet (don't get caught)

Apart from that try to find a nice girlfriend who makes you even hornier, have some fun with your gf (fun as in sex, but use rubbers) and pretty soon you won't be thinking about your sister anymore at all.

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A female reader, Emmajane United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2008):

Emmajane agony auntSome of the answers above are not very helpful. There's nothing wrong with you and thank goodness you asked the question! It's perfectly natural to be aroused sexually by any naked body, male or female, at your age. The important thing is to recognise it would be very wrong to DO anything with your sister.

In due course you'll find someone your own age or older to help you develop your sexual awareness. Meanwhile if you are very inquisitive sexually you should use porn or just your imagination and don't let anyone tell you it's wrong to masturbate!

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A female reader, honkifuluvnicole United States +, writes (13 January 2008):

honkifuluvnicole agony auntStay away from your sister.

That is all that I have to say about that.

But you are at the age where you get horny over girls or thinking of them naked.

You probably think of your sister sexually because you see her everyday, and she is always around you.

Just NEVER touch her, or spy on her. That is just gross and wrong.

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A female reader, GracieFaith United States +, writes (13 January 2008):

You are at an age where you're exploring your sexuality and being curious about other bodies is normal. Perhaps you are focusing on your sister because she seems most "accessible." However, it would be unhealthy for you and for her to explore your sexualities together. If you have a trusted adult in your life, you might ask for some books or materials that allow you to explore your sexuality in ways that respect your sister's privacy and integrity.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008):

This isn't good - sorry! I don't think you should tell anyone about this and don't try to do anything with your sister. Don't drag your sister into this - you should love her as family, but not be IN love with her.

You will get over this - how about getting out with friends more, or start a hobby: sport, music, art, drama....anything that will take your mind off this....

I hope you sort this out x x x

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2008):

hello1 agony auntI REALLY hope that you are joking. Join a club or even better, get a girlfreind! there's something wrong in your head as if you grew up with your sister you shouldn't be feeling this. You should feel protective over her, not lust.

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony aunttry searching the internet for porn in private... yes i know you're 15 but we all have to start somewhere.

i'll put it down to your raging hormones that you're confused because everyone is at that age.

and more to the point as laura said, get out of the house and hell go find a girl your age who isn't in your direct blood line

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008):

Hey, This is a very dangerous situation and what you are feeling for your sister is unnatural and abnormal. It is incestuous. Please speak with a guidance counsellor or an older responsible adult that you can trust. If you are very close with your parents please speak with them also. Whatever you do, please do not act on these feelings.

All the best

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (13 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony aunt

You should find some healthy activity which will take your mind of sex. Go for some sports or games or get out of the house more so that you won't get to see your sister and think of her.

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